My boy and I have started having sex this year and we have about 5 times now. Only it has never felt very good. Like everyone says that it feels good, but it has never done anything for me and the only enjoyment it has given is the fact that we are bonding.
2006-10-11 21:23:55 · 12 answers · asked by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is it your 5th time ever....like he was your first...if so give it time...you will be a nymph in no time....
2006-10-11 21:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by Justcurious81 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to find out what you like. This is where some self-discovery comes in. I suggest you take some time to note what arrouses you, then you can share...
Though, I think you should really wait, until you know this is a person you love and want nothing more than to live together, have children, etc. Otherwise, I only see emotional pain later if things turn sour.
2006-10-12 04:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is uncomfortable try a lubricant that has a heating sensation at the touch and then do some fore play, if that does not get you in the mood then maybe you might want to think about having a heart to heart talk with him. signed born2damromantic
2006-10-12 05:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by born 2 d-mn romantic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to hear that my friend.Maybe you get too nervous,or you think it's not the right person to begin with,maybe you needed to wait a little longer.who knows? Ä°t could be anything.I hope you find the way to enjoy it,enjoy life with someone who really takes you up there to the clouds :-)
2006-10-12 04:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, your boy isn't making sure your satisfied. I hate to say it, but many boys worry about one thing and thats making sure they get what they want. A real man does that and makes sure his woman is pleased too. Good luck.
2006-10-12 04:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by White Knight 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think sex is like a marriage. Some time we have to do a lot with our partner when we don't want to do it. Dear do some meditation.
2006-10-12 04:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by Gagan Sawhney 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your boy is a very poor lover.
That's why I prefer MEN to boys.
2006-10-12 04:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if it is painfull try some ky jelly if it is just that you are not able to get into it try forplay then stop and start again try news thing like jellys toys props or sexy clothing or talking about what you want and how
2006-10-12 04:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by GINA D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Does he know how to respect your body? Does he really love you? If not, and if you two are not having fun, then don't do it. wait for a right person.
2006-10-13 03:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by farshicago 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try waiting to junior high at least
2006-10-12 05:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋