my brother has been married to his wife for 5 years and I just cannot stop thinking of her in a sexual way at one point when they first met he went back to his wife and blew her off so she wanted to be my freind I knew there was no chance for us and that was it my bro left his wife and married her she knows the way I look at her and how attentive I am towards her every action and then I am the one she gets mad at the most can has this happened to anyone before what should I do.
2006-10-11 20:48:24 · 6 answers · asked by red 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Seems someone isn't taking their marriage vows seriously, (her). Attention by flirting can fun and harmless, but bottom line, you don't put the wedge between your brother and you and become involved in some dramatic triangle. After all, no piece of tail is worth is, and you're brother can get a divorce, (if it ever comes down to that), but you will and are, always his brother, and you have to live with that. End the mind games, and flirting, it's danger territory, and really dumb. You're brother professed his love for that woman, despite how she might conduct herself in front of you. Can you imagine you actually doing something and the betrayel he would feel? Come on, have some common sense. Keep those thoughts clearly under wraps, and supressed. If you valued your brother more then getting laid, there would be no point to this question. Bro's before Ho's.. or however that saying goes..!!!
2006-10-11 20:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Manatee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put it would be very very wrong of you to ever make a move on your brother's wife. With that said, you need to remove yourself from this situation. Keep your distance where she is concerned. You don't need to be her best friend, or the man she comes to when she has a problem, that is her husband's job. You are just extended family, and that is your job. Put some much needed space between you and let your brother and his wife work on their marriage. You work on getting your life together, and in time you will find happiness with someone who is in the position to return your feelings. Take care of you. Do the right thing, otherwise you will regret it someday...
2006-10-12 03:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any answers, just some advice
take a breath halfway when youre saying anything try to use some full stops in your sentences its very annoying and i guess no one would really understand what the fark you are saying okay that is all the advice i have for you good luck
2006-10-12 04:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by JackAssBuster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its too hard for me to figure out want this person wants it must be that he likes aliens and wants ice cream there are too many fossils running around using my fuel was that a law against spitting on the sidewalk that just ran by my window if there are any blueberries i hope they like my cerial.
Gee, I wonder why basic grammar skills are considered a requirement?
2006-10-12 03:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Frankie P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about your brother it would hurt him if he knew....you need to get a girl friend and forget about her.....avoiding her would be supicious ..just try not to think about her in any way than just a sister in law or sister...u wouldnt think of ur sister in a sexual way would u?
2006-10-12 03:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by sweetlady38237 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's flirting with you, she is chaotic, why would you want to be involved in chaos? Especially if it met hurting your borther.
2006-10-12 03:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋