it's been 2 years me and my boyfriend have benn trying but nothing has happen and im getting scard that i cant have kids what are good tips?
2006-10-11 20:32:13 · 21 answers · asked by little_mami_joker 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Thank goodnes your body has more sense than you do. A baby at 16! And you started trying at 14!
Here's a tip: you are not old enough to have children.
Nobody your age has enough to offer a child, not enough money, not enough smarts, not enough foresight. If you want the best for your children, go out and get an education, and a job with an income so you can buy a house for them to live in, and so many other things children need. And then start saving money to send them to college.
2006-10-11 20:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Great a welfare baby... I have nothing against medicaid before people jump down my throat I had it when I was pregnant with my son b/c I was high risk and my husbands company wouldn't offer us insurance b/c it wasn't open enrollment time. But anyways, how about you graduate high school, take hooked on phonics, and live your life a little bit b/c you know what you do get pregnant you are going to be miserable at your age. I think someone needs to give you a baby think it over doll for 2 or 3 days and you would change your mind or better yet have someone make you watch there infant for 24 hours and that would snap your *** back into reality. How do you plan on feeding, diapering, clothing that baby? B/C by law you can't work full time so that means your parents, his parents or the state are going to be taking care of your child for the most part.
2006-10-11 20:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by rochelle s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16? been trying for 2 years which means you were 14? way toooo young to be trying for a baby! Babies are hard work, you will not have a social life if you have a baby this young!
Think about the implecations long and hard before you even consider ttc!
Live a little first hun!
2006-10-11 23:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are seriously an idiot. A 14 or 16 year old has no business trying to have a baby.
I'm not giving any teenagers tips on how to become pregnant. Sorry.
Go play with some Barbies or go to the mall.
2006-10-12 01:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you should be scared of, is not being able to write, spell or finish school. Finish High School before thinking of having a baby so you can feed and care for that child with a good job and not depend on welfare.
2006-10-11 20:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by nannygoat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you asked your mother ? and is your boyfriend's bicycle fixed? so that he could go to work for you and your baby?
PS: wake up and smell the coffee girl !!! if you guys break up he will not keep the baby and then your sorrows begin? like they say to the guys but modified for you " think with your brain and not with your undeveloped penis!!! because trust me, he is not thinking he wants a cute little baby like u might be !!! u think he is special because he is nice to u ? well u will really see how special he is when he has to give up fun for the responsibility of u and ur baby....at least wait until u guys r 18 and have good jobs so if doesn't work out the baby won't suffer that much. Just the emotional break up of u guys.
2006-10-11 21:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by slickrickdesigns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you in such a hurry? You aren't even out of school yet. Please wait until you turn 18 before trying again. I got preggy my first time and had the baby a month after I turned 18. My husband has a good job, but those first couple years were still hard. You need to think about the child and not just yourself. Please finish highschool before pregnancy. And marry the guy. If he's good enough to have a kid with, he should be good enough to marry!
2006-10-11 20:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are young yet. At your age he will not be around for that baby. Your a child yet. You should not be trying to have a baby at your age. You need to wait to have a child. I had my first one young. I wish I would have waited. Do not put yourself thru that. You really should wait to have one. You have a childhood yet. Do not be in a rush to be a mum. You will regret it later in life. Trust me on this one. You might not think so now. But I am being honest with you.
2006-10-11 22:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by redneckbratt_talking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend need to finish school first so you can get JOBS so the rest of us do not have to support and take care of you because you, your boyfriend and your 14 illegimate kids are on welfare. If you do not know what illegimate means, that means people who have babies and aren`t married.
2006-10-11 20:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was trying to get pregnant and the months past and still no positive pregnancy test I went to my mom who had seven kids and asked her for her advise.
Ask your mom, your sister or maybe look it up on the net.
Go to your search box and type in "trying to conceive"..
Good luck
2006-10-11 20:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋