see the thing is that ive been married for 2 years we have sex every day its kind of becoming an every day routine i mean i do love doing sex with him but i wanna try something different for a change and i would like him to enjoy it more since we already tried everything we can think of..... another thing is since we got married we have been having unprotected sex because we wanna have a baby but it hasent happened for some reason i need some tips on that as well. THNX....
2006-10-11 20:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by beutiful!.... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
TRY DIFFERENT THEMES EVERY NIGHT, GET COSTUMES, SEX TOYS, PLAY ACT, MOVE OUT OF THE BEDROOM, TRY THE TERRACE, TRY THE POOL, GARAGE ETC,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
HAVE FUN DOING IT MOST IMPORTANTLY.
2006-10-11 20:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sarang 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tender, intimate lovemaking that is based on emotions never needs spicing up. Just get lost in each others eyes. Marvel at one another's hands. Fall asleep in each other's arms.
As for pregnancy, are you coming off the pill? There are only 3-4 days each month when a woman can get pregnant. Ovulation usually always occurs on the 14th day of a normal 28 day ovulation cycle. Day one of the ovulation cycle is the first day of the menstrual cycle, so you ovulate 13 days after the first day of your period. Body temperature drops slightly before ovulation and rises slightly after ovulation, so keeping a daily record of your body temperature can help. Even easier, buy an Ovulite Microscope. Use the microscope every morning to test a small drop of saliva. A particular pattern of crystals indicate that you are ovulating.
Best of luck to you. If all else fails...adopt. Adopting a newborn practically guarentees an unplanned pregnancy!!
2006-10-11 20:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by ineedonebuddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know if it would be your thing, but my fiance and I like to envolve another female occasionally. It is tons of fun and I guarantee if you told him this was on your mind, you sex life would spice up even without doing it. As far as the pregnancy thing, I would suggest fertility drugs and both of you to have thoughout examinations. Somethings just take time. GOOD LUCK
2006-10-11 21:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by jt0915 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he's at work send him a video message of you goin' at it with the end of a wooden spoon or a similar shaped object. Moan over and over, mmmm, yeah, mm, oh, more, yeah more, oh more, mm yeah more, More, More, MORE, MORE. OH yeah, OH OH OH MM MMM YEAH MORE MORE OHHH UH, UH, UH, MOOOOREEE, I'M COMING I'M COOMINNG I'M COOOOMMMIINNNNNG OOOOOOOHHHHHHHH YYYEAAAAHHH YESSSSSSSSS MMM mmm. Then let the sugar run down your thighs as your cherry slot pulsates. He'll be so turned on that he will come home that night with an unmistakeable bulge in his pants, grab you throw you on the couch/kitchen bench/dining room table/bed/washingmachine/iron board and take you right there and then. He'll moan and roar as he blows inside you so hard that you will be able to feel his sperm richocheting off of your fallopian tubes. You'll lie there in an exhausted stupor, your cherry slot and his birch wood pulsating all the while.
2006-10-11 20:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sheriff Leane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe check online for some of the classic texts -- the kama sutra springs to mind
but everyone is different in what they like and dont like so you need to experiment --- different clothes --- read some books ---- discuss alternatives --- find fantasies
the only thing for getting pregnant is to check with a doctor and check both to make sure neither of you have any problems --- its the quickest and most accurate way to be sure
2006-10-11 20:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to have his sperm count build up= dont have sex for 3 days before ovulation= you should ovulate 10-14 days after your period- if you are on a 28ish day cycle-D
2006-10-11 20:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your trying to conceive and have been unsuccessful till now...then its time you got medical help...
Any amount of spicing up ur sex life may not solve the problem.
2006-10-11 20:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by donkeydo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you try aromatherapy? try using scented candles on your next intercourse,. it usually set the moods,.. About fertility thing,.. try to see a doctor,.. maybe one of you has a problem
2006-10-11 20:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by ozma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, do what sheriff said, but send me the video first to make sure you did it right.
2006-10-11 20:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remember, what works depends on your husband & you. This is just one guy’s wish list. You might be able to use one or more of these or they may give you a better idea.
I've taken pictures of my wife naked. Would your husband like nude pictures of you?
You can perform an erotic dance routine & strip naked for him. Meet him at the door topless -- or naked. Pick him up at work with nothing under your coat.
You might try role-playing your, &/or your husband’s, fantasies. One of my favorite fantasies is my wife losing a bet that forces her to be a topless waitress for a night. To act it out she’ll serve me a drink topless as I imagine her topless in public with her breasts dangling in front of me & other guys as she serves us. We’ve role-played this several times.
The wife as a sex slave scenario is an obvious role-playing choice. Would your husband like to see you as a tourist captured & sold in a slave market or a woman captured by a powerful man who wants her. Several times my wife has been a tourist framed for drug possession & held prisoner in a foreign jail. I’m the police official who tells her if she ‘cooperates’ by performing the very best sex routines she’s ever done she’ll be released after a week or two. Or she can be virtuous and be sentenced to 4 years in jail. She always cooperates to the fullest.
Before I was married a GF once played the role of a prostitute. She never went braless but that night she went to a bar braless and a dressed more risqué than I’d ever seen her in public. When I went in a few minutes after her she acted like a prostitute who let me pick her up. Weeks later I wanted to stop in that same bar just for drinks but she said she’d never go back in that bar again.
If role-playing is not what you’re looking for, try going braless. You can spice it up more with a semi or totally see-thru top. At a restaurant one night I told my wife she'd look better without her bra being visible under her blouse. She said that she couldn't go bra-less under a top that was transparent. However, she exited the ladies' room looking great. She was a little embarrassed because her breasts were clearly visible.
Or try surprising him by removing your blouse & bra while the two of you are somewhere he wouldn’t expect it but you won’t be seen. On weekends my wife will often go braless & several times she’s even removed her blouse while we were walking in a secluded park or hiking. If you are willing to go topless outside you can spice it up even more by handing your bra and blouse to your husband – or let him take it from you. This could be a nice turn on for him. Even if the risk of being seen is very small, or even zero, it can be a great turn on and if you do give him your clothes you combine exposed nipples with a bit of a power trip for the guy. However, if anyone shows up & he doesn’t give you back your stuff you might find yourself putting on a topless show for someone besides your husband. So you may decide to hold on to your top. However, you being caught topless might really turn him on. And maybe you?
If being outside topless is too risqué or reckless try removing your top while the two of you are driving -- preferably alone and at night. I love to drive with my wife topless & occasionally she’ll do it for me. If you’re in traffic keep your eyes open. Once we heard a very loud racing engine & soon realized that as we passed a truck his lights were high enough to light up the inside of our car. After seeing my wife he increased his speed to catch up with us to get another look. My topless wife didn't notice him till he'd seen her. She looked up & said he was grinning from ear to ear. My wife had a few drinks & he already saw her so she decided not to worry about a trucker seeing her topless & gave me a nice thrill. I let him catch up with us giving him another nice look as my wife smiled at him. Sleepy truckers are a road hazard so that was our contribution for public safety. The next day she said "I can't believe I flashed a trucker." I thought it was great.
Hope one of these helps. Good luck.
2006-10-15 02:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by Scalawag-101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋