Can someone help please? My hubby and I are trying for a baby, but do not get pregnant? Do someone know how to get pregnant fast and easy. We are despret to became parent. It had been already 4 month of trying. Help please ! @ !
2006-10-11 19:32:18 · 9 answers · asked by Lizel M 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
It took me a year to get pregnant. It happened when i stopped worrying about getting pregnant.
When a brand new little soul is meant to come into this world it will happen no matter how hard you try.
Go to http://www.mymonthlycycles.com and put in your period info and it will calculate when you will be fertile and ovulating.
Trying to Conceive - Helpful tips for getting pregnant
Find out when you are ovulating
There are several ways you can do this. One of the easiest ways is to purchase a Basal thermometer and start charting your temperatures. You can use Justmommies free fertility chart to record and keep track of your temperatures. Make sure you take you use a basal thermometer.
It is the most accurate for charting ovulation. Take your temperature as soon as you wake up, before you get out of bed, go to the bathroom or do anything. Try to take your temperature at the same time every morning if you can. This way your chart will be more precise. The best time to have sex is between the time your temperature drops and before it rises again.
One other way you can find out when you are ovulating is by using an ovulation predictor test. You can purchase ovulation tests in bulk online to make it more affordable. Ovulation kits measure the amount of Lutenizing Hormone in your body. Right before you ovulate your body releases a large amount of LH. The test kits are easy to use. They are very similar to a pregnancy test. You will have a reference line and then a sample line to compare that to. Once you show a positive test for ovulation you should have intercourse within twenty-four hours.
Some of the best ways to predict when you are ovulating are by watching your body for signs of ovulation. Some women feel cramping on one side when they ovulate. Ovulation pain should not be the only thing you watch for but it is one indicator of ovulation. You should also keep an eye on your cervical mucous. You will notice that your cervical mucous will pick up several days before ovulation. When your cervical mucous starts to look like egg white and becomes really slippery, this is the best time to get pregnant. The slippery consistency helps to carry the sperm up the vaginal canal. Some doctors recommend taking Robitussin to help thin out your mucous which will help to transport the semen.
Some dos and don’ts for getting pregnant
Do limit movement after intercourse. Standing up after intercourse can cause the semen to leak out. Try to wait twenty minutes after sex before getting up and moving around.
Do try to keep the sperm inside your vagina longer. You can hold the labia together to try to keep the sperm inside of you. You can also try putting a pillow under your pelvis to help tilt your body so the sperm can travel upwards easier.
Do try to make sex enjoyable. Sometimes when a couple is trying to conceive it will affect the quality of their sex life. More enjoyable sex means higher sperm count and better “swimmers”.
Do limit intercourse and male masturbation prior to the days you are trying to conceive. It will help to increase the man’s sperm count and improve your chances of getting pregnant.
Do take prenatal vitamins if you are trying to conceive. Folic acid and other vitamins are very important during the first trimester of pregnancy.
Don’t drink alcohol or use drugs at the time of conception. This applies to both the male and female. There is strong evidence that alcohol can effect your chances of getting pregnant.
Don’t douche after having intercourse. It can wash out the sperm that has just entered your body.
Don’t have oral sex prior to intercourse. There is some evidence that the bacteria in the mouth can cause damage to male sperm.
Don’t have anal sex prior to intercourse. Bacteria in the anas can be carried into the vagina from the man’s penis. If you do have anal sex before intercourse, make sure your partner washes his penis first.
If you have been trying to conceive for over a year please consult a doctor. You may need to have tests run or use fertility treatments.
Get more trying to conceive information at http://www.Justmommies.com
2006-10-11 19:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is my standard answer......... go get a book called Taking Charge of your fertility by Toni Weschler
This book will help you with all of your menstrual and conception questions. It’s for all women - not just women trying to conceive. It covers everything from temperature to mucus checking, etc.. It will help you understand your body and all the myths about it. It will help you time when you are ovulating and the best times to conceive – or not! It tells you how to figure out your cycle and what to expect. My husband and I tried for a year to conceive and nothing happened. The first month I used the book we conceived right away. Now I am due Feb 2. It's about knowing your body and knowing when you are fertile or not. You can pick and choose what you do with your info. Good luck and don't listen the all the myths
2006-10-12 10:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first "enemy" of getting pregnant is stress. Just let it come naturally. Why don't the 2 of you go on a vacation? Away from the day to day hassles? Just Relax and enjoy being together. When the time comes....
2006-10-12 03:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by willda_ph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and don't stress on it. I seemed to get pregnant after I stopped taking the pill, you become very fertile when you stop the pill. I became pregnant with triplets one time. Take the pill for one month like your suppose to, then stop. Be healthy too, eat good as if you were pregnant, not good like allot but make your calories count, lots of fruit and veggies, whole grains and protien, just be healthy and relaxed. You can also try to stay laying down after intercourse for about 10 minutes with your legs elevated on pillows, it worked for my mom.
2006-10-12 03:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mt ~^^~~^^~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lizel, to get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-10-12 21:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U have not mentioned about duration of ur menstrual cycle. is it Coming on time every month. If there is not too much of variation in its duration do following calculation
Consider first day of ur bleeding as ur first day of ur MC.
Duration of ur MC - 16 = X
Duration of ur MC - 12 = Y
This will give u one small value (X) and one big value (Y), try to have sex in this duration only. because chances that u to get conceive are high if u have sex in this duration
Let me give u example
If ur MC duration is 26 days then X=10 and Y =14
Then have sex in between 10th & 14th day of ur cycle.
If u still do not get conceive dont panic about it, consult ur doctor He will investigate both of u for cause of infertility. with modern technique like artificial insemination & invitro fertilisation it is possible to make 80 -90 % of infertile couples to get conceive.
2006-10-12 03:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by dr sachpw 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apparently for the average couple it takes a year and a half! Try to stop thinking about it...maybe you are stressing too much! Good luck and hope you will be pregnant soon!!
2006-10-12 02:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
have you beent racking your ovulation and doing it on the days that are best? if you know when you ovulate the best times to have sex are 1-2 days before ovulation and within 24 hours of ovulation most women ovulate 14 days from the first day of their period.
2006-10-12 02:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe I can help...shoot me your address and I'll be right over...
2006-10-12 02:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by loofa36 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋