2006-10-11 19:31:04 · 9 answers · asked by spyvixen17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is such a tricky question because everyone of us has faced this dilemma at some stage in their lives. I myself was confronted with this situation last year.
What did I do? I followed me heart so that is the best advice I can give you: Follow your heart. Maybe you and your friend will overcome any differences you had in the past. Perhaps not. But as long as you follow your heart you will know in yourself that you have acted honorably.
Good luck and may the Universe smile upon you :-)
2006-10-11 19:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by siacono 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are truly best friends then no matter what the deal is things will work themselves out and the two of you will bond again. some times things happen to save the friendship so it doesn't rip it apart for good. GIVE IT TIME THIS TOO SHALL PASS!
2006-10-12 02:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by hectcheryl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The great thing about good friends is not matter how long you've apart when reunited it seems you just pick up where you left off. Good friends are hard to come by and require some effort. What are you waiting for, go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-12 02:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by dettie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation right now. See, what happened to me was, this guy and I have been friends for about 9 years, and I guess that you could say that we are best friends, but this year, I moved from down south, to Washington state, and for the last three to four months, I have been beating myself over the head wondering if he is going to keep his promise to keep in touch with me. (He hasn't, and I am not sure that he ever will.) Well recently, I went back down south for a visit for my birthday, and I was visiting at my old school, and he say me in the office. Well he waved at me, after he did a double take to see if it was really me, but he did not even walk into the office to say hello. It really hurt me, but I went to his football game that night, and I sat through the pouring rain so that I could see him play, and after the game was over, as he was on his way to the field house to change, I talked to him for a few seconds, and he asked me how I was doing, but he did not even wish me a happy birthday. That hurt me worse then him not saying hello in the office. I guess what I am trying to say is that my friendship is not worth reconciling, because it is one-sided, but yours is worth it, especially if you have the chance. Please, stay in touch with your best friend. It will save them the heartache that I am going through.
2006-10-12 02:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Meighan L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, YES , after all she/he know a real me since we are bestfriend for a long time. We can start again at least I know her/him already so no need to make a big adjustment and getting to know each other.
2006-10-12 02:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by james 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes that happens don't force to get back in touch if it happen ride with it if it you just grew apart
2006-10-12 02:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by lilbagel21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends...how you "fell apart"....if it was sorta a bad thing...let it pass, you will meet someday, if it was really meant to be...but if well, not...and you really miss you best friend...call him...or her!
2006-10-12 02:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by kosh.was.here. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should try to contact her and schedule for a hang out or something. =)
2006-10-12 02:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by c.m.t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NAH,
IT IS GOOD TO LET GO FOR A WHILE. TIME WILL COME, IF YOU ARE DESTINED TO MEET, SOON.
BADE YOURS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-12 02:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by Sarang 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋