plsss help me.... its not easy to suffer this felling......... i dont want to break her trust......... i love her T.T
2006-10-11 19:19:22 · 3 answers · asked by aix ken 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Oh gawd... you're so screwed. In this day in age if you're "friends" you're pretty much stuck. Don't worry about breaking any trust, because it's not right to pretend you're fine being friends when you really want more. If what you really want is to be with her romantically you need to be willing to risk the friendship and be fully prepared for the rejection that you're likely to get. Women tend to get into a comfort zone with a person and once one feels that they're friends with someone they don't like that to be changed. If you really want to go to the next level you really ought to make it a situation where you either go to the next level or you move on, because given the option of going to the next level or staying friends 99.9% of women will elect to stay friends. Stay strong and if you're rejected you really should move on. You'll have new friends and lovers. And to avoid this situation in the future never ever ever ever allow yourself to be "just friends" with a girl unless you know that is all you'll ever want with her. You always must be absolutely clear that your intentions with a woman is to date her from the get go or you will be in a mess like this again. A way you might consider expressing yourself is "I'm O.K., being friends first, but I'm not O.K. being just friends."
2006-10-11 19:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Zloar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything drastic! You're probably experiencing Lust and not Love.
If she isn't given you any reason to expect the same feelings from her, you shouldn't take the chance of losing her company.
Any way, you'll find out soon enough. And don't be the first to let it out. Let her make the first move or you could scare her off!
If not, then you have nothing to lose. Tell her you can't be friends anymore because of the way you feel! If she bolts, it wasn't meant to be.
If she wants to know more then you problems are over. Well, most of them!
2006-10-11 19:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what im in the same situation as you. its ****** killin me, but im just takin it a day at a time and lettin it flow...
i need just as much help as you brotha, lol
2006-10-12 13:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋