im only interested in what any of the ladies here have to say. any answers from guys will be disregarded unless i find it useful. My gf and I had/have been bestfriends since we were 12 years old(both of us our 21 now) and have been in a relationship for 10 months now. And I was her first for everything in the bedroom(took her virginity, give her oral, anal...etc.....u get the point. Well as time went on we experminted and tried new things in the bedroom. The other day we were on the net just to see if we could find something we havent tried yet. Well we found one thing and we talked about it and im interested in trying it and she said she is also but at the sametime im getting the feeling she isnt sure or something. What we want to try is her puttin on a strap-on and doing me in my butt. Cuz one day she put a finger in there and hit my prostate and i loved it so much its become a regular activity. so ladies could u lemme kno what u have to say about using a strapon on ur man please.
2006-10-11 18:58:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and to answer a few questions, ive read on many different sites that more often then not a women that uses a strap-on and put it in a guys butt has multiple orgasms with alot of it becuz she loves being in control. and as far as pleasure for the guy, its a proven fact that a males prostate is his g spot and if worked correctly will make him orgasm and make it more intense then any other time.
2006-10-11 19:25:36 · update #1
this was her idea becuz i love her finger(s) bak there and she loves when shes in control. and the answers here that automaticlly label it gay is the reason im only interested in what the ladies have to say.
2006-10-11 23:53:53 · update #2
and if u dont mind ladies id appreciate it if any of you email me about this so its easier gagnon86@yahoo.com
2006-10-11 23:57:04 · update #3
go ahead and try it. if she wants to and you want to then there is no problem. Is there any addictions in your family histories though cause it sounds to me that there might be deeper issues here than your letting on. For some reason just the act of sex is not enough for you. And it also sounds like you are in a life preserver relationship.
2006-10-11 19:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by twysty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally wont participate in anal sex, so think it would be a grosse Idea to have to do it to my man, I dont find the idea a turn on at all.
I have to also wonder why anyone would want it up the butt? I may be old fashioned Girl or something. Is'nt there lots of other things you can do for sexual gratification that taking it up the butt?
I actually thought that only Gay men were the ones that preferred this sexual act, and Gay women were the only ones that used strap ons..... I also wonder about the cleanliness factor of the whole exercise.
Whats next the real thing I have to ask? I know I would be worried if I was your gf.
You did ask........
2006-10-12 02:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by tassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who was in this same situation. They were in love, had trust, and in their 30's. He asked her the same question, and they decided to do it. I can only tell you what she told me. She regreted it completly. She said that it felt wrong...really, really...wrong. She was unable to look at him afterwards and see her "man"..all she saw was a gay guy. Even though she knew he wasn't gay, it left a knawing question...."Is he gay? Is he Bi?" Either way, it took all of his manhood away, as far as she was concerned. She continued to have these feelings until she was unable to accept it. They broke up about 5 months later. She honestly loved him, and was planning a future with him...but once it was done...she couldn't get the image out of her mind. I suggest you limit it to her finger, and forget the role reversal...cuz that's what it is, really.
2006-10-12 02:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by msbeeautch2u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is kinda nasty.i think you should keep the same gender roles..
and what kind of pleasure could she get out of that??i know i wouldnt get any
2006-10-12 02:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by morenita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my opinion, it takes the manhood out of a man to see him gettin pluked up the butt....i couldnt do it.
2006-10-12 02:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okey... this is a real prob for u i suppose...
i dont experiment on sex, hon... i'm sorry
btw...
what a kinky gurl u got
lol
2006-10-12 02:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhhhhhhh........ I DUNNNNNNo 'bout that one!!!!!!!
:-0
2006-10-12 02:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋