I met this guy online then we hooked up the thing is we live like 30 minutes away(just by driving) after we dated for 4 months his parents decided to be rude and tell him to end it i suspose i was to good for him. that totally lost me there! but we had to hide our relationship. the point is after we got caught things came pretty tough he started emotionally abused me. i still have feelings for him and i cant stop loving him i tried alot things but nothing worked. any advice to overcome the feelings i have for him?? it kills me deeply.
2006-10-11 18:41:19 · 8 answers · asked by Maria AKA one of a kind 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You may not have noticed it when it happened... but you MADE A DECISION to Love this guy and started Loving him. You need to make the decision to STOP Loving him, STOP LOVING HIM and get on with your life. Remove the things from your room, home, PC, Cell phone and other things you look at CONSTANTLY that remind you of him and move on. Also, get a rebound-boy to take your mind off him for a while.
Good luck.
PS: You probably were too good for him ;-)
2006-10-11 18:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by keysfunding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard don't let anyone tell you its not. Cry all you need to. I was told once that the best way to get over someone like that is to tell yourself that you can only think about that person for 10 minutes at a time then you have to think about accounting or something else "crazy" to take your mind off it him, then tell yourself you can only think about him for 8 minutes at a time, then 5 and so on and so on. Until you just think about them for 30 milliseconds. Anyway hope you get the picture. Sorry your heartbroken. Maybe play some upbeat music that makes you feel pretty or special. Hope this helps!
2006-10-12 01:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by nervousenergy73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't what your going to want to hear hun but time is the only thing that is going to help you get over him. I'm pretty much going through the same thing and I know how tough it is. You want to call but can't, You want to talk to him but he won't listen, and in the meantime your in a total turmoil. the worse part is you still care but try not to do anything that will make you look the fool. it's going to get better not today and not tomorrow but the hurt will ease with every day that passes. Good luck .
2006-10-12 01:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by tinywolf2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate going through the same thing. Try going out more with your friends like out for drinks or dancing. If you are in school, focus on your studies, join a club or activity. Get a hobby something that you enjoy. The busier you are the less likely you have time to think about the him. It's working for me so far and when you do have time to think about him you will be too tired from all your new activities to think about him.
2006-10-12 01:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Crumbling_Cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wassup! but any way its hard getting over sum1 u love. u just have to try ur best to get over it, just try getting involoved in things u love to do and just try ur best to go out and meet sum new ppl and im not talking bout moving on to sum1 else just maybe a new friend and if any one tell u that its easy they r lying or either never been in love b4 cuz i have and believe me grl it hurts like hell. but grl just try to be strong and keep ur head up ok. holla back if u want to.
2006-10-12 01:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by Fresh R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not easy to just Get Over, but in time it will get easier to live with.
2006-10-12 01:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by tricia5661 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should hold on to what you had with him.and i don't think you will ever get over him at all.it sounds like you two had some thing special. maybe one day you two will get back together. his parents can't keep him away from you for ever.
2006-10-12 01:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by linda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy with work, hobbies, families etc.....go out with friends and try to make new friend as well.
2006-10-12 01:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by betty boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋