speaking from a guys point of view, I could imagine it being pleasureable every time, but for women: besides the pain the first time, do they get cravings and desires to keep having sex again. For example, I am virgin, I marry a virgin. We have sex, now I wanna keep having sex like every night for a long time, so would my wife who just lost her virginity keep craving too? and please dont give me that "well......it all depends on the girl" crap
Thanks
2006-10-11 18:29:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honestly, it really does depend on the girl. With men, sex is nearly all physical. WIth women, it's almost all mental. If we're not focused, if we're feeling icky or dirty about it, if we're raised with some weird notions about how sex is bad and not to be enjoyed, then we're not going to enjoy it.
If you have a woman with a healthy attitude about sex, then it's just a question of you doing the right things to get her excited. Trust me, when the mindset is right, and the woman knows it's going to be fun, she's going to want it.
2006-10-11 18:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin when I got married and so was my husband. The first time we rushed into it and I wasn't ready (not wet enough) and it hurt, but after we got the "hang" of it we had a wonderful time. Women have cravings, definitely!!! We both want to pleasure each other before we make love and he can make me come again and again and again till I am begging him to put himself inside me and then he still makes me come till I'm screaming and then begging him to come, sometimes going for an hour or more at a time. So, what I'm saying is, if you take the time to pleasure her then she's going to want you all the more!! Every day!! I especially love it when we can just stay in bed all day and make love till we are so exhausted we fall asleep on each other and then whoever wakes up first wakes the other for more!! Have fun!!!
2006-10-12 01:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by c's grandma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on the girl............I'm Kidding
If you please her then yes she will want to continue doing it and craving it. But if she is not getting an orgasm and she is having to fake it then no she will not.
Just a note when a girl says yeah right there work in that spot and don't you dare lose your load until her legs are quivering.
You guys tend to stop alot because you are trying to keep from cumming in the meant time when you stop her orgasm deminshes and she has to start all over again, it don't just pick up where you left off. So mind your libido and try and last longer than 5 minutes
2006-10-12 01:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time is not about pleasure, it is being intimate more than anything else. yes we do have cravings, and after the first time even more. it takes a while for it to feel good, but its fun even if it is uncomfortable. so yes...
2006-10-12 01:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope u packing well...if u r then u shouldnt have any complaints and if u watch a few flicks to get some ideas then u may be able to turn that virgin to a freak if u keep sticking good dick to her.......if a woman finds a dick thats long and hard and an twirk it right then she gonna wanna be on that dick 24/7 365.....dont play wit it
2006-10-12 01:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by toya1jolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No eventually she will get used to the pleasure and you will too, whether you like it or not.
2006-10-12 02:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by N/a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for the first few times it is painful for the girl and so she is afraid, later on however it changes.
2006-10-12 01:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by hemanta s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yesss..i think they do...but if she injoyed it...& if the guy with her know what he is doing...(if he is good in bed)
2006-10-12 01:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by doll_of_sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋