I am 25 years old and i am a virgin. Recently my gf and i decided to have sex.
The problem is that i get an erection just by kissing her... and by the time we finish up with the foreplay my erection is gone.
(i've not cummed).. it just softens up.
I am not over weight, i dont do drugs and i'm still pretty young. so I'm wondering why i cant hold an erection for a longer period of time.
A note to mention is that, i masturbate a lot... i started very very early ... ... and have been masturbating every day since then atleast 2-4 times a day. Could this be the problem, if so how do i go about solving it.
2006-10-11 18:09:58 · 11 answers · asked by ron g 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
quit jacking off so much, it will raise your labido for your girl.
2006-10-11 18:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by moolie_wfo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The masturbation probably has nothing to do with it. To much masturbation can wearer out the nerves in the penis but if you go 1-7 days without masturbating all the damage should be corrected.
You might have a problem but I would not be to worried. Try to keep jerking yourself during most of the for play and stuff. I would go see a doctor about it if I were you.
2006-10-11 18:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop masturbating so much! Jeez...cut it down to every other day or so OK? It is NOT helping your situation. Also the problem of losing your erection is all psychological. You probably have some fear and guilt issues somewhere in your mind.
2006-10-12 02:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2-4 times a day is excessive!
If you get a b oner just kissing her, then keep kissing her as you remove her panties, spread her legs and penetrate that lil honey pot of hers! Once you're in, you'll realise there is NO substitute for the real thing! What she's got between her legs is vastly superior to your hand!
2006-10-11 18:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I had the same problem when I was young. I found out that it was due to the anxiety. Try to relax, listen to music, don't give yourself pressure. One failure doesn't mean you can't do it.
2006-10-11 18:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by Vicki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its just anxiety, just relax and lay off the whacking for a while.
2006-10-11 18:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by fire_rain_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neurasthenia
2006-10-11 18:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nasal delivery spray - up the nose and away it goes and goes and goes!
2006-10-11 18:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by zuj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hurry up and stick it in
2006-10-11 18:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wanking and just ram her.
2006-10-11 18:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋