i have played sports and i am a very good athlete, but most guys only see me a ''buddy'' or ''just a friend''.
2006-10-11 17:55:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Royalty
may be you are for another type of guy......
secret is what makes woman beautifull
try to be beautifull or cute,, not with make up,
2006-10-11 18:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by Henry W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you aren't their girlfriend than use their secrets or change yourself to be a weird girly girl but keep the athlete inside. I am a tomboy so what its great. SOmetimes life is better when you are alone, u dont have to worry about relationships and breaking up. Single is the thing like that song "Single" by Natasha Bedingfeild.
2006-10-12 05:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by da202101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is because they sometimes don't look girly and the fact that they may not act real girly. Maybe to them it would be like dating a guy. But I guess it would depend on how much of a tomboy you were. I was never a tomboy myself. The whole idea of dressing up in men's clothing is so unappealing to me:) But anyway, I knew a girl who was a tomboy when she was young, but she was always really boycrazy, probably lost her virginity at 14-16 and is now an unwed mother at 20. But she's not very tomboy anymore, she kind of grew out of it quick.
2006-10-12 10:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most guys love the girly girls. It's the whole, "I want to have sex" thing. It's a strange thing. They lump you in as one of the guys but don't see you as dating material. Men are strange creatures. They see the girly girls as future wives and mothers of their children. they see the athletes as the ones who will go play basketball an football with them while their wives are in the house cooking and raising the childrne and getting supper on the table.You will have to widen your circle of hobbies. There IS one thing you are doing right: you are where the MEN are. that's the right idea. try adding a little more feminimity to your uniform if you can, or just canceling hanging out wth them now and them and don't tell hem where you are going. let them wonder. if they ask, just tell them you had plans. maybe they will see you in a different light.
2006-10-12 12:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you hang out with guys, you will be considered one of the guys. Some of them might really like you but would feel weird dating you. Guys usually prefer more feminine girls. If you want a boyfriend soften up a lil, put on some makeup and wear a dress now and then. You don't have to give up sports but hold off on the wrestling and arm punches with the guys you like...
2006-10-12 01:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's okay Rachel. It's nice to have guys like you as a friend. Actually it's very flattering. As you get older, you will realize how great it is to have these athletic talents and be able to relate to guys that way. Someone will come along, at the right time, and he will be the right person. But for now, allow your relationships to take their own path and enjoy what you can have in common with these guys.
2006-10-12 00:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by Esther 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have always loved cars and sports and outdoorsy stuff my whole life and always had more guyfriends than girlfriends.
I have had many pre-marital dates and have been happily married to the same sexy man for over 10 years.
Many men have told me that a woman who loves "guy stuff" is really sexy.
Do you still dress up and smell like a "girl"? That does help!
2006-10-12 01:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How did this question get classified under "royalty"?!
At certain ages guys are totally confused by young women who look like girls but don't act "feminine", that is, sily, "helpless", and obsessed by clothes and getting admired. In some cases they are afraid of them (psychologically, not physically).
They get over it. Haven't you ever run across any of those stories in which "just a friend" is code for "I really get turned on by thinking of her, but I don't want you to know it"?
2006-10-12 01:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by Dick Eney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself blessed! You may be being seen as a threat to their masculinity, and therefore insecure men wont try to date you!
Ond second tought... If you wanted sex (only) with them and were a bit agressive/straightfoward about it you would have them in a second.
On third tought... You are a tomboy, thei doubt their masculinity. If you wanted anything long lasting, just read my second tought and they're yours!
2006-10-12 04:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by Diego A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are so conditioned to see you as "one of the guys" that they forget that you aren't. also they may be afraid that you aren't interested in men(stereotype i know, but it might be in their head) If one started to date you it would change the dynamic of the group
For the record some guys like tomboys
2006-10-13 20:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by janssen411 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT listen to them! I always preferred "tomboy-girls" I even was married to one for many years. They can still spiff right up when they put on a evening gown. You just need to find a good country boy who appreciates you
2006-10-12 01:01:28 · answer #11 · answered by jadamgrd 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋