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I am pregnant, in an ustable relationship and i am moving to another town and starting a new job on Monday! i want to keep the baby although i am not sure if it is the best decision considering the circumstances. i am 20 years old and feel i am responsible enough to be a caring parent............... any advice?

2006-10-11 17:54:30 · 4 answers · asked by TSJ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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you messed up ! now tell the father and work out a deal for the good of the child. dont be foolish selfish or mean.

2006-10-11 17:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by billybadazz 3 · 0 0

Keep your baby, and seek good prenantal care. Read some books talk to other mothers you may know for advice. If you are christian look into joining a church moms group they usually will gladly take in a young pregnant mom to be, they can be a awesome support system. We do it all the time at our church, i was even a labor coach for a 18 year old girls a year ago & still watch her little boy 2x per week (free) to help her out.

2006-10-11 17:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 0 0

I had my first child at 19 and was sort of in the same situation. You aren't very far along yet and you still have plenty of time to get your life in order. You need to work out your relationship problems if that's what you want to do or you need to just be on your own. You don't want any extra stress when you are pregnant. Do what makes you happy. Get yourself settled in your new place and when it is time for the baby to come you will feel much better about your situation. Right now you need to worry about you and your unborn.

2006-10-11 17:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by lparker_2005 2 · 0 0

I did it without a problem......Its better to love your baby and take care of it yourself than do something you would regret. I was 18 when I got pregnant and 18 when my son was born. I went to school, I worked, I did training, my mom helped a lot. Its easier to have the support of friends and family.....anyway....feel free to email or IM me anytime. Yeah its best to be in a happy relationship but what else are you gonna do?

2006-10-11 18:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0 0

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