Just tell the truth!!!!
2006-10-11 17:49:27 · 26 answers · asked by ShayR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
possibly depends on how she gave it up, if you hit me back i can explain
2006-10-11 17:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by gsxr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are in strong competition for men. If you are neurotic, sexually repressed or have negative attitudes about men, then you are going to be alone while some girl who knows what is going on, walks off with the man who should have been your boyfriend.
Most men are nice, normal people who look at a woman as a long term relationship. If you get with him right away, it seals the deal on this, being the actual event that makes you our girlfriend.
A small percentage of guys are looking disposable women. All of these men are exactly the same and should be easy to spot and avoid. They act like total assholes. If you are stupid enough to give one of them the time of day, than you deserve what you get. Ditto, if your meeting a man involves drugs, being totally drunk off your ***, or hanging out with the criminal element. Don't hang out at some creepy dive and then expect to meet a good man. Dress nicely and go to an upscale, outdoor bar, alone. Just sit there. Within a short period of time, high quality men will come over to meet you. All of them will be interested in you long term. Feel free to sleep with the man you want, as soon as you want. This prevents some other girl from walking off with the man you wanted. None of these men will be thinking less of you for it. Instead, what's going through their head is, oh good, she's my girlfriend now.
Things men wished women knew.
2006-10-12 01:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men and women should be virgins till they get married. However since that is probably not true in both your cases, I suggest that since the girl is someone you are sexually involved with...you should pursue a relationship with her. Why didn't you resist her when she was having sex with you if you were only going to disrespect her later on? Why have sex with her and then wonder why she gave it up so easily? Don't judge her since you also gave yourself up sexually the first night and she shouldn't be judged because she's a girl and you can get away with it because you're a boy. Be true to yourself and her and don't dump her because she let you in. You'll just be another human user then.
2006-10-12 00:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After more than a year now I'm still with the girl that gave it up the first night. It gets better and better.
2006-10-12 00:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by K.S. THiS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, i've never excluded any woman i've dated as the "one" because that happened... in my mind, it could have been that way, but it just didn't happen... i'm married now and it may have helped that she waited, but i can't say with certainty that is always the case.... in fact, i'd have to say my best sex was with a girl that gave it up the first night -- way better than the sex i'm having now... but it depends on the guy
2006-10-12 00:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by misterlyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don;t see why not.
Just because she gave it up to me in 1 night doesn't mean she was that way with everyone she has dated. Women make up their minds the mement they meet a man. Or so that is what ihave learned in my experience.
2006-10-12 00:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Amador1_79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mindblowing
2006-10-12 00:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possible. I would not take it on the first date, so I wouldn't be too high on a girl. But if I took it, I would not look down on it
2006-10-12 01:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Girls that give it up on the first date really like sex. I like sex, and if she likes sex, me happy. My fiancee was on her period the first date, so she did "other things" to me that was just as good as sex. We are getting married next spring. Most of my ex-girlfriends have gave it up on the first or second date. It rocks.
2006-10-12 00:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by NightTrainWooWoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a certain strike against her. But I'm not one to disqualify a perfectly nice girl because of a single strike.
2006-10-12 00:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by Akfek_Branford 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well let see if he got her in to bed the first nite that tells me that that is all she wanted but i have been there the first nite me and her went out we you no and we went out for a year she feel in love with me but i did not fall for her so instead of wasting her time i left her but to say wood i do it again yes
2006-10-12 01:00:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋