Hoow do you about to maintain an affair a secret and what do you do so the wife doesn't find out, and with who do you do it. My husband of two years has changed a lot with me. Everything seems to bother him. I give him no motive for him to be jeolous yet he wants me to tell him everything I do and answer my phone regardless of were I am.He wasn't this way. He was very loving and caring, now he doesn't seem to care even for sex. sometimes we go two weeks before he feels like having sex ans I am tire of begging for it.
2006-10-11 17:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
beg him to give you anal. that should perk him up
2006-10-11 17:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear this ,
If you notice a change ,specially in the bed area , then tell him straight up ,off guard kind of thing.
It could be narcotics,
It could be that he has asexual problem and does not know how to tell you,and that's why he feels he need to keep u in a short leash.
Or yes it could be an affair.
The best way to find out its throw the cards on the table and demand an explanation.
its easier than having things going round and round your head.
If you know him ,you will know if he is laying.
Good luck.
2006-10-12 00:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Rick 77 O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just burned out on you for now. Don't worry it happens now and then. The longer you are with someone the easier it is to take them for granted. You should go out and buy some sexy clothes, get your hair done and go out with some girlfriends one night. He might take a little more notice when you stop worrying about him and have some fun for yourself. Make sure you invite him along tho, he'll say no but it'll make him wonder...
2006-10-12 00:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Kate,
You guys need to sit down and talk with each other. There are some serious things that you need to discuss. He's got problems and you've got problems and the first thing that you need to do is discuss along with your needs.
Best of luck to you.
--Rick
2006-10-12 00:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the beginning, when a man has to try very hard to win a woman, sometimes you don't notice his bad points.
your man likes to control you, and now he is letting it show.
the quickest way to solve the problem is for you to leave him.
he will either try to win you back, or he will forget you.
the slow way to solve the problem is to talk to him about trust and respect....and remind him that you are with him because you want to be with him, not because he can force you to stay and to obey him.
2006-10-12 00:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is cheating on you
2006-10-12 00:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋