2006-10-11 17:28:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I used to like the more aggressive ones until the last aggressive guy beat me up..now I gravitate toward the nicer ones.
2006-10-11 17:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... I would always go with nice first... but it's great when a really nice guy becomes surprisingly a little aggressive sexually. Not rough or anything, but just when he initiates or is the one to hold you and kiss you and go for it in other ways. You realize he's not so nice anymore, but in a comfortable and safe way.
I guess it's sort of the same thing for a guy when the pure and nice sweetheart of a women all of a sudden turns a little naughty in bed. Very exciting.
2006-10-12 00:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good man knows how to do it all & when it's appropriate. I like be dominated and being the agresser. Yet I also like the gentle ways & being gentle. Then there's just being down right hard core do & take it all in stride and just have fun at it. It can all be sensual and isn't that the turn on.
2006-10-12 01:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by tygernside 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always be a nice person and sometimes must got little aggressiveness. I want both.
2006-10-12 00:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by thara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course we don't want anyone aggressive. We want someone whom we can trust and also feel safe to be with. But that doesn't mean we want nice guys. Anyone can be nice. We want someone courages, someone who love with a passion and someone who never give up on life.
2006-10-12 00:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by ylimele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like controlling agressivness. Nice goes a long way just so that the guy isn't a whimp.
Agressive men are often controlling. Personally I need a guy who is sweet and mellow and agressive when he needs to be and does it with grace and wisdom
2006-10-12 00:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married to men who were nice but beat me. I have been married to men who beat me yet were nice.
I am married to a man who is a gentleman who doesnt beat me, who is nice.
However sometimes I wish he were a bit more agressive, and more of a manly man. Sometimes he seems just toooo much of a gentleman.
Sometimes I want him to pick me up and carry me.. whether its over his shoulders or in his arms.
And I hate when a man whines.... I dont know where that came from but I still hate it..
2006-10-12 01:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by Shalamar Rue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF A WOMAN WHAT'S HER MAN TO BE AGGRESSIVE 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 SHE HAS BEEN WITH MEN THAT ABUSE HER SO SHE IS USED TO THAT AND THINKS SHE DOESN'T DESERVE BETTER BUT WITH MYSELF AND THE WOMEN A KNOW WE LIKE MEN TO BE NICE
2006-10-12 00:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
being a nice male i noticed that girls go out with men who are more aggressive.
2006-10-12 00:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Southie9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish last. Women LOVE the drama even if they don't admit to it.
2006-10-12 00:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋