my husband likes to have anal stimulation, particularly having dildo's in his ***, does this mean hes gay but does not want to admit it?
2006-10-11 17:21:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As the mature people have told you a mans prostate is accessible only from the anus. This is the male G spot and when stimulated can produce a very strong climax. He is obviously VERY comfortable with you sexually and knows his own sexuality.
If it does not affend you in any way doing this for him....they no worries...just make sure to clean any toys REALLY good before you use them.
Have fun...and again NO it does not mean he is gay.
2006-10-11 18:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men like anal sex and are not gay. This in itself is not necessarily an indication of any gay tendencies.
What you need to look for is any change of habits; does he walk differently (check his backyard swing), how much does he talk about new male friends, has his daily habits/interests changed, what are magazines is he reading?
What I'm saying is check for any noticeable changes in him.
2006-10-12 00:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mickey B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really. he could be or maybe he is exploring new sexual stuff. my husband wouldn't even has me wash his a*s in the shower and now after trying a few new sexual stuff he doesn't mind me playing around there. not with a dildo maybe your man likes it rough. there are lots of nerve endings around the a*s for both man and woman so he just likes the sensation. it wouldn't hurt to ask him boldly if he would ever has make a man put his d*** in his a*s and hear what he says. ask him straight
2006-10-12 00:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by sexylousleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think inserting a dildo into his as* is a little much. You must feel the same way or you would not be questioning it. I don't think it means he has been with a man but being penetrated by a dildo like that is similar to being penetrated by a penis. I know that there are nerves, etc. blah, blah in the as* but in all actuality he likes being penetrated with a dildo.... its not like a finger or a tongue or something where you are rubbing the outside, this is actual penetration. I think he is very suspect...
2006-10-12 20:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Tee 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The prostate gland is located inside of the anus....and that's supposed to provide immense sexual stimulation, if your man will let you try it. I would see if you can still satisfy him the old fashioned way and if you can, let it be. You have a sexually uninhibited man.
2006-10-12 00:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by It's Been Cool 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it does not mean he is gay at all, actually a mans's G-Spot is just inside their anus and they get extreme please from this area. All it means is that he is not ashamed to admit what he likes.
2006-10-12 00:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not really. You know what they say, "Different strokes for different folks."
Just ask him and see what he says.
2006-10-12 00:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by SouthernLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe or he could just be a freak. Ask him.
2006-10-12 04:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just ck his underwear for doo-doo stains in the back....and the front.
2006-10-12 00:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Could be, why don't you ask him?
2006-10-12 00:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by reinadelaz 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋