am i in love or am i crazy?
am i in love or am i crazy?
we been together for only a month! he told me a fell for me n i did the same! i miss himmmm soo much i wish he was here wit me everyday! but we're 2 hours apart! i love himmmm so mucH! i try n talk to him as much as i can!! i jus wish he was here by my side! my friends think i'm crazy but i think its love!!! wat do you think!!!
{note} i love him more then any guy i dated cuz he like me for my personality not just lookss!!!!!
2006-10-11 17:03:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-10-11 17:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Warning.......one of the biggest components in love is that the object of our love MAKES US FEEL GOOD. There is nothing wrong with that, but it has to be balanced and given both ways.
If it is a mutual agreement that making each other is something that you two can maintain over time, then go for it.
Warning.....if that guy quits making you feel good you will do one of two things........you will move on not caring that he is gone, or you will be heart broken becasue the illusion of what you wanted and what you got from him for a shot time. That time will take on a life of it's own giving you an addiction sort of withdrawl from missing him.
If this guy is for you then make sure the lines of communications are always open.
You are probably a little bit of both.....in love and crazy. Nothing wrong with that.
2006-10-12 00:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are infatuated. SLOW DOWN! pace the relationship. it's normal to be infatuated. but if you persue this relationship at this pace itwill burn out. you want a love that burns long and slow. you need to give this relationship a solid foundation. take the time to really get to know who he is. that takes time. you want instant gratification. I've been where you are. believe me honey it aint' worth it.
try following my personal favorite rule: the three day rule. type up all emails you want to send and wait THREE DAYS and then aftyer three days, look at the emails and ten if it looks like a good email THEN you can send it. this works WONDERS! obviously this is a one by one. youa re doing these all at the same time but every time you want to send him an email you do this. it gives you time to get over the "I want to email him NOW" feeling. save them as a notepad file on your computer.
2006-10-12 00:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it takes atleast 6 months of being with someone A LOT before you really now them. Those feelings when you first meet someone are very strong and fade in time and then you begin to see the person for who they really are. GIVE IT TIME!!!!
2006-10-12 00:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by justme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just have a crush! Try doing other things and see if you still feel the same way after it.
2006-10-12 00:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by cyanwitch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is 2 hours away and you are so infatuated!!- give it time - long distance relationships are a pain- you may also be deeply in like= D
2006-10-12 00:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like someone is in love its such a wonderful feeling just like I always tell people on here when you are in love that is something that you will feel you won't have to ask anyone you will just know
2006-10-12 00:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're infatuated, plain and simple.
2006-10-12 00:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋