how can i be matured ?

Question

some time my husband said i am behaving like child, i m vry immatured so how can i be matured

Answer 1

it takes time. also, the more you learn, the more you grown intellectually, so that may help. maturity can't be purposely manipulated without psychological damage. perhaps evaluating your behavior and understanding what he is talking about might help you. perhaps you pout or throw temper tantrums. you can think before you act. that would help.

english classes might do some good, too.

Answer 2

You are not a fruit or something that is to be artificially matured for quick sale! Even a normal fruit takes it own time to mature , depending upon the climate , the conditions around , the pets ... so many things. You will take your own time if your husband is not a pest , retarding your maturity.

And , also, there are two aspects to maturity, physical and mental. I donot know what your husband is referring to. Whether you like it or nor physical maturity... growth of organs, body, internal systems .... will always be there. you cannot stop it.

mental maturity is to be developed consciously. read, learn , watch others , think over, ask questions why .... It is obvious you are innocent ( like a child) . Nothing wrong. But grow out of it. You cannot have an adult body and a child`s mind. It is a mismatch

Answer 3

From your question I can see you need an education. Go to school and learn something. Your question is written like it was from a six year old. Read a book on maturity for starters to get a clue. Just grow up. Don't leave it up to your husband to point out your flaws but listen to what he is saying. Ask other people what they think. Listen to what people are suggesting to you and do something about it. Otherwise I recommend a good thrashing. If you want to act like a child then you need disciplined like one. Your husband should dump you probably. Quit making him miserable and educate your mind.

Answer 4

Behaving like a child, I thought that's cute (between married couples)! You need to identify the immaturity part as from your husband's viewpoint. Check with him. Change them, if necessary (for yourself and the relationship). If you have a reason, justify the action and hopefully he understands better and can accept it. You also admitted you're 'very immatured', so you know :-) Again, identify these areas and change, if necessary. It's always good to hear what others think about us. Change for the better, change for yourself and in this case, for the relationship.

Answer 5

A person who asks this kind of question is mature enough. Tell your husband that if he also behaves like a grown up person you will also not behave like a child.

Answer 6

you realy seem concerned i dont know you so i cant judge your behavior but be carefull of munipulation what do you do thats so imature and if it was such a problem why did he marry you to begin with i meen you should not feel this way s woman you shouldnt be stresed about any thing petti unless your wineing about real pety crap but just remember marrige is ment for people who want to love and encourge one another positively not badger and put down helping each other through life not becomeing a punching bag for any one i realy feel for you hun the more i think about the more i wonder if you are being verbaly abused one can only change and row up by being confident and being able to scrafice but dont do something unless you realy want to or it will end in disaster be carefiull evaluate whats realy being said by your husband and take it face value if it realy hurts your feeling write a list of pros and cons the things you love about him and the things you dislike and if your dislikes out weigh the likes well your in trouble i would personaly leave the person unless i was so madly in love that i was gonna try to work it out by comeing to a mutual agreement on the situation dont sacrfice your life for someone who treats you bad remember theres other people in the worlod that will love you for you so taKE YOUR TIME IN MAKEING A DECISION AND KEEP IT ALL A SECRET UNTIL YOU IGURED OUT YOUR COURSE OF ACTION AND THE N JUST TAKE ACTION WITH OUT HIM KNOWING MAKE IT A SURPRISE TRUST ME THAT IS ALWAYS THE EASISEST WAY AND MAY GIVE YOU THE EDGE AND OR FOOT HOLD YOU NEED

Answer 7

yes somebody says u to go school or etc, but my suggestion is be yourself and believe yourself. u know self confident about ur skills and will power to face any problems rather than weaping for such a small problems, u can see not show ur maturity, it comes natrually not to search from outside my friend. Try to do meditation and concentrate in your work or household work, do not panic when u face problems and try to understand other's psychology, definetely you will see maturity. all the best

Answer 8

Silence! It is the golden rule for avoiding conflicts. Do not take everything to heart. Even if your husband is not forgiving, you ignore these incidents. You can be raelly happy in life. Many times we at home get many such arguements, but keeping them in mind does not help either. Also, there is no harm in accepting your mistake, if you realise that part.

Answer 9

you have ur own inherent qualities i think ur husbands like u verg much for behaving like child just be as u are .Ur qualities will improve when u grow start interacting with goodpeople.There is no such thing as maturity its just perception. person with childish behaviour will be liked by all because of his or her innocence keep going

Answer 10

behave like a matured lady