2006-10-11 16:49:21 · 21 answers · asked by Daisy mae 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If I deserved it, I'd take it but if I didn't, I'd defend myself.
2006-10-11 16:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 6' tall and of athletic build so no one has ever done that. Maybe if you carried a big stick, or if your in Az. or TX you should carry a pistol. The thing is that I am sure I had bosses who wanted to raise their voice to me and they did not. Granted the same feelings that stoped them probably caused some passive aggressive results but the thing is that no one has to be rude if they do not want to be. Try doing this, ask "Are you trying to intimdate me??" my guess is that person will know they have been called out and change their tune.
When I was boss and the supervisees would do aggravating things I would look them in the I and ask,,,are you trying to aggravate me, and even the most troublesome offenders always backed down.
Get a copy of "I'm OK your OK" read and understand it and then you can stop the games.
2006-10-11 16:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a very calm voice, tell your boss that yelling and screaming does not accomplish a task and lowers morale and productivity. And that you would prefer to discuss any problems in a calm and professional manner and come up with resolutions to whatever the problem is.
Then if that doesn't work and if there is an HR (Human Resources) in your work, then you should talk to an HR rep about the situation.
2006-10-11 16:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by julygirl75038 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand there and stare at him/her.....nod head in agreement....and walk away.
Or we could yell and scream back and make an *** of ourselves. Become our boss.
Or we could threaten to report him/her for harassment and emotiional abuse. Wonder how that would go over?
Or we could continue to speak in a calm and quiet voice when it is your turn to talk back to your boss.....kill him/her with kindness.
I have tried that...it works. Staying calm always works.....but don't go home and let out all the things you wished you had said....don't hold in anger and resentment.....it will only hurt you and the ones you love.
2006-10-11 16:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to HR and tell them. Noone should have to put up with screaming and yelling from a boss.
2006-10-11 16:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by RoryGirl2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boss or not I wouldn't stand there and there and listen to anyone yell at me. If he/she had something to say to me they could say it with respect or I won't have the respect to listen.
2006-10-11 16:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him to please stop yelling at me and if he doesn't then tell him that you will report him. He can lose his job for that did you know that? Bu ti hope this helps? Tell your boss to piss off!
2006-10-11 16:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by talktomuch06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him point blank, and calmly, if he thinks he can find somebody else to do your job better. If he thinks he can, no point sticking around. But that should shut him up. If you're still there, it's because he needs you.
2006-10-11 16:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get right next to his right ear and scream at the top of your lungs,
"I QUIT"
2006-10-11 16:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by Stinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen then of course go back to what your supposed to be doing .. let them cool off then go back on level terms to try to work things out .then if you dont reach a compromise then the rest is up to you
2006-10-11 16:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by itsmechuckyb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit.
2006-10-11 16:50:27 · answer #11 · answered by NORTH WEST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋