If a guy is gay but sleeps and has full sex with a member of an opposite sex, meaning girl, what it make him straight or no? Let's say a gay guy is pressured from society that he has to be with a girl and have sex with her just like heterosexuals do, or when men and women do, does it change his gay feelings or sexual arousement to his say sex?
2006-10-11 16:49:12 · 16 answers · asked by Yoguide 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If they were pressured to sleep with someone due to society no that does not change one's sexualitly. It just means they are living a lie and trying to cover up who they really are.
2006-10-12 02:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people (not all) that think they might be gay
go though a time where they seem to screw any girl
that is out there or feel for any girl out there
to see weather or not they really do feel the way they are feeling inside themselves
some don't admit their true feelings ever not even to them selves
some realize the reason they can never find happiness with a girl is because they really are not a guy
when they realize this it can be after one girl or thousand girls
but only up until then do the find them selves confused
so what i am saying just because a gay guy has sex with a girl don't mean he has to like it
after all it is just sex to a gay guy
but if a gay guy thought he was in love with a girl after being in love with a guy
then that is up to the gay guy weather he then thinks of him self as a bisexual of straight or gay
We are all different
but we all get put into the stereotypes
gay lesbian bisexual and straight
none of us are a text book
we all have different thoughts and
therefore we can never be a truly label anybody
love has no boundaries age race gender and disability
2006-10-12 00:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexual preference is about just that, preference. It is a question of what you want to do, not what you actually do, otherwise there would be no difference between a Trappist monk with his vow of silence and a congenital mute. On the Kinsey scale almost all of us are some degree of bi-sexual, a 5 or 6 would have a definite to overwhelming preference for their own sex, but still be capable, under some circumstances, of performing with the opposite sex. An example would be straight men in prison having homosexual encounters because that was all that was available. It doesn't make them less straight, when women again are an option, that is what they will choose.
2006-10-11 16:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole idea that most people's experiences are exclusively same-sex is just wrong. Check Kinsey?
That said, when it comes to labels, it's preferences that count more than an out-of-preference experience now and then. Many people experiment to find out what they like. It's not like you have to stay "pure" to "deserve" a label.
I've talked to some very gay guys who've been married at one time or another. Orientation can vary as you go through life. So? It's nothing to get all worried about.
2006-10-11 19:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gay guy sleeping with a girl doesn't make him straight or changes his sexual orientation. If a gay guy gets married to a girl because of pressure from the urban society, his sexual desires will never be fulfilled and he will be miserable and probably turn crazy.
2006-10-11 16:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleeping with a girl does not make a gay guy any less gay. that's because the gay guy's sexual preference would always be the male. in this case, if he's pressured to have sex with a girl for whatever reasons, the guy would still be gay.
2006-10-11 17:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope doesn't change who you are. I have had sex with a woman but I am 100% gay -- I was married and did what I thought society expected of me until I got wise and realized I needed to be honest with myself and find happiness.
2006-10-12 10:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a person's sexuality is unchangable.
Just as if a person who is naturally right handed looses the ability to use that hand and must learn to use their left hand. It doesn't make them left handed, it makes them right handed who has to use their left hand.
A person who is naturally gay/lesbian but who practices heterosexual sex is still gay, but living a lie.
2006-10-11 17:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 06:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by titman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is too easy to fall into "labels". In most people's minds a label like "gay" tends to confine the definition of that person. But most people are more than their so-called label. I would recommend that you ignore labels and not let them fence you in. From what you have written here, it seems that you are excited by either gender. This aspect of your personality allows you to enjoy the best of both "worlds", and should be the opposite of any limits to who you are.
2006-10-11 17:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by Froggie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋