There is a gorgeous girl at work who I really like, but I think I made a total goof of myself when I spoke to her the other day! I know she is gay but what should I do now?
2006-10-11 16:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by Lucy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
go back and talk to her.
choose a safe topic to talk about so that you won't goof off again.
if anything, she'd be flattered with your efforts.
she's seen you goof off already.
if you go back to talk to her, she'll see your intentions in the purest form.
g'luck!
2006-10-11 16:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, not being sure how you made a goof of yourself or, if you just think you did because you are self conscious. I would say, try and talk with her again, and get to know her a bit. You'll feel more comfortable and more able to talk with her about a possible date.
2006-10-11 23:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not sure 100% whether she's gay or not, than best advice I can give you is to stay away from her. The reason being is that, is she's straight and doesn't like gays or lesbians, than that will be a problem for you. Just think before what your doing. Because of time people get hurt when they put their feelings before logically thinking and seeing what is right and what is wrong.
2006-10-11 23:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Yoguide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did make a goof out of yourself don't worry about it next time you talk to her just say sorry for being silly last time. She prob already knows you like her and thinks it's cute that you get nervous or something. Just continue to talk to her and see what happens
2006-10-11 23:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God says, just keep her as a friend and dont let it go beyond that. Mixing business with pleasure has nearly always ended in disaster. That to one side, just say to her, "look I made a total idiot of myself yesterday, so can I buy you lunch and start all over again". That should work.
2006-10-11 23:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by God 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if you made a goof of yourself? Just talk to her some more. Play it cool! Good luck.
2006-10-11 23:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by euphoriarevelation 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it... we all make goofs of ourselves at some point or another... I make a daily habit of it! :-) I know in this homophobic society it may be difficult to be yourself, but it certainly wouldn't hurt to invite her for coffee and see how things go. :-)
2006-10-11 23:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try talking with her. I am sure she would like that. Every one from time to time may do some thing they may regreat afterwars but I would say try again. I am more then positive she is waiting.
2006-10-12 00:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mix business with pleasure. If it goes wrong you will have to work with her everyday and it could be very uncomfortable. Also, management usually frowns on office romances. It could cost you your job. Look elsewhere for a girl friend.
2006-10-11 23:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You should go out with a MAN, instead. Did you know the bible said Adam and Eve should be together not Eve and Edna.
2006-10-11 23:34:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋