About a mounth ago I became friends with this guy Daniel. I thought he was really fun (the kind of guy that you just want to be friends with) I'm not sure but I felt like maybe we would become really good friends. And since my BFF moved away I had been really lonely and depressed. When I met him I felt like everything was changing. He made me happy.
But two weeks ago whe this guy Devin asked me out Daniel kind of just stoped talking to me. I don't know what happend.
2006-10-11 15:56:58 · 14 answers · asked by ~Julia~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Daniel may have had more intentions than just being friends. Or if he does just want to be friends he may be thinking he needs be stay away from you while you and Devin are going out so that he won't be a threat to your new relationship. He may feel that you don't want want to persue a friendship with him any more since you've fulfilled that with Daniel now. It can get very complicated. You need to talk to Devin and find out what his true feelings and intentions are. I hope I gave you something to think about. Good luck.
2006-10-11 16:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by angelica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like jealously is rearing it's ugly head. He might have thought that maybe there was a chance of something happening between the two of you. But now there's another guy in the picture and he's feeling threatened. I would try to let him know that just because you're seeing a new guy, doesn't mean that you can't be friends anymore. If he's really wanting to be a friend, he will understand. If not, then maybe it's better to find out now instead of later. I hope this helps honey. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-10-11 16:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well come on there are some reasons a good one would be he wants you to have ur time with ur boyfriend and so he won't get in trouble with Devin or he doesn't see u like a friend i DON'T know what u could do am go in through the same situation I'm sorry hopely you find a way to get these better.LUCK and i need it too. BY3
2006-10-11 16:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by gaby16andibeliverbdisdabest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he likes you more than a friend...I don't know if you have answered Devin, but before doing that maybe sit down and have a chat with Daniel.
Sam
2006-10-11 16:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not clear on whether you want to be just friends with this guy or if you want the relationship to grow. So I answered as if you want the relationship to grow because you said everything was changing and he made you happy.
Some guys (perhaps this one) does not to vie for the attention of someone they like. Especially if they think their girl is super hot (sounds like you) They avoid competition because they don't want to be compared to another guy. (and their not good at it nor do they want to be) This is what I am, who I am. I am not going to put on a show or butt heads like rams do to gain and maintain a girls attention.
You want to salvage this relationship, you have to be mature... If you like this guy, tell him that right now you would like to just see each other and just each other. Lets give this relationship a chance. And say, "What do you think?" I think he will respond accordingly. But, if you are a player, seeing other guys, think it's OK to do this because after all, there isn't a ring on your finger... your going to loose this guy, FOREVER!
He thinks your special. Act like it, because this guy doesn't share. And will avoid confrontation.
He makes you happy. Sounds like he makes you laugh too! Well this is good... knaw this is great!!! You have the beginnings of a wonderful relationship. Good luck.
2006-10-11 16:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by BeArPaW_4709 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you stop to think that maybe your friend daniel likes you as more than a friend and doesn't like the idea of you being with someone else. Maybe he is jealous
2006-10-11 15:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
daniel loved u like a girl friend and he got jealous when devin askeed u out
2006-10-11 17:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by AlExA SaNcHeZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he LIKES u more than just a friend. i've had things like this happen sort of but u should call him and hang out with him because maybe he's jelous. just try and reconnect, talk to him.
2006-10-11 17:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by Josie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes you more than just a friend, so speak with him and find out what's the real deal, and if you like him like that, then let him know as well. good luck.
2006-10-11 16:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by sam-sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you went out with devin, tell daniel that you didnt mean anything when you went out with devin, and that you want to be friends. if you didnt go out, tell daniel that you told devin no cuz you like daniel better.
2006-10-11 16:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Randy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋