had sex with two guys. One was my bast friends boyfriend but thye had alread broken up and the other wass this colleg guy who came to our school to lecture our class aobot something, I don't remember. So after class me and him wree talking and we went out aftre schhool and he took me back to his dorm. I told my best friend and she told my ather frien and then she told everyon in school and now they say that i am a s l u t and i only did it two times and noe I feel like i can never have sex again because the whole shool is like looking at me funny and calling me stut behind my bak. What do I do? Taht is not fair or funny and I am already scared that i am pregnant an i don't even know who it by.
2006-10-11 15:53:44 · 15 answers · asked by teen queen 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yes indeed that does make you a slut!
you are too young to be having sex, and with so many guys.
you should have spend that time learning how to spell idiot!
2006-10-11 15:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by sexyblackmomba 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Your right its not funny. But once you have sex you have made a decision to accept the consequences whatever that may be. Can you stand by your decisions to have sex regardless to what others think?? Apparently not you have doubts you probably don't know why you did it. Do some self esteem exercises make decisions that reflect self love and worthiness. You wont have this kind of backlash and if you do you'll have the strength do deal with it. Focus on developing as an individual and pay attention in class. Good luck dear.
2006-10-11 23:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by NuMi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not judging you but please rethink having sex at your age. You are way too young to handle the consequences that go along with having sex. You've found out a lot of them by this situation and you haven't even gotten close to all of them yet. Pregnancy is bad enough at your age. But to not know who the father is, that's a pretty big one too. It doesn't sound like you're using protection of any kind so that brings in VD. Honestly, you're in pretty deep right now. I hope you can talk to your parents or a counselor. You need to be able to talk... in person... to someone who's not going to judge you. You're not going to be able to get that on the Internet. Best of luck.
2006-10-11 23:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by mattswife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 you are having sex with older boys, you just met! And you are surprised that the other kids are calling you names?? If you aren't pregnant, count yourself luck, and clean up your act. No more sex until you are at least 18. Maybe in time you can get some of your self respect back, and some of the other kids will respect you. But for a long time, boys will expect you to put out anywhere, anytime. Don't let them do that to you. Respect yourself. Earn a good reputation.
2006-10-11 23:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by lollipop 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
They call you a slut because you carry yourself as one. When I was in school I would have definitely labeled someone with no self respect, such as yourself, a slut. At 14, what the hell are you having sex for anyway? Obviously, from your poor grammar you should be spending your time brushing up on schoolwork and getting your head into the books. I seriously hope this is a joke.
Why oh why, are young girls so fast nowadays??
2006-10-11 23:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tiacola Version 9.0 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I find your question interesting in Lieu of the fact that I recently watched a documentary on the word s l u t.Irresponsible? yes.
Careless? no doubt.But going through life feeling guilty about sex is no way to live either.I think you betrayed yourself by being so reckless, but I don't think you are a s l u t and I don't appreciate anyone calling a Woman a s l u t for no better reason than being sexually active.I don't think you are mature enough to have sex, but I don't want to live in a world were women are shamed for being sexual either.
2006-10-11 23:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, honestly you don't sound mature enough to be having sex yet anyway, and are making pretty stupid decisions. That doesn't make you a sl*t, but it makes you easy for anyone older and more experienced in this sort of thing.
You might want to think about holding off. You honestly don't sound like you can handle it yet.
2006-10-11 22:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OK, well, let's see, you're 14, had sex twice......YEP, that pretty much fits the Webster dictionary definition of a slut. Lay off the sex for awhile babe......
2006-10-11 23:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i dunno what to tell you. u should have used a condom or not even had sex at all. i would go and see a doctor to make sure of the pregancy thing. as for everyone else calling you a slut, i guess u should change school. talk to a counsler even
2006-10-11 22:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by stargirl2000s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no. Blackmail the college guy into giving you money or you'll scream rape (which it is by the way). And at least then you'll be a rich girl having sex at 14.
2006-10-11 23:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Cassie w 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋