i need to know if my cousin is a virgin. if you get fingered are you still considered one or not
2006-10-11 15:28:39 · 16 answers · asked by the one and only me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you r still a virgin until u have sexual intercourse
2006-10-11 15:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by sabbycat76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good feminist answer: 'Virginity' is a manufactured concept.
Realistic answer: Everyone looks at it differently. It doesn't affect what kind of person you are or what you're capable of.
Fingering is typically not considered deflowering. It's more under 'mutual masturbation' than 'sex.'
Then again, it depends on what you believe. Some people think just about any genital contact constitutes sexual touching/sex itself and others will exclude hands jobs, oral sex AND anal sex, and say that only vaginal counts.
Bottom line? It's whether or not SHE thinks she's a virgin.
EDIT: Oh yeah, and that bleeding thing? Not a reliable test at ALL. The hymen has nothing to do with it--it's the surrounding muscle walls. Many girls break their hymans doing other activities, some are born without them, some are extra-tough (and survive some tampans and fingering).
2006-10-11 15:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by git_tator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be able to tell if she bled or not. But fingering is still considered sexual contact. She might not have been completly "stretched" out like having intercourse with another boy/man but she can still be de-virginized that way. I think it goes by her beliefs. Some people think having actaul sex with a person, but if the "cherry is popped" then thats when you know.
That is what i believe.
2006-10-11 15:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by spongebobswife68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although, what your cousin is doing is sexual activity technically your cousin is a virgin until there is intercourse in which the vagina is penetrated by a penis. Clear enough?
2006-10-11 15:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the f***?!? Look virgin up in the dictionary. And, why the hell do YOU need to know about your cousin's sexual experience?
2006-10-11 15:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by GORDO BLAKHART 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no youre not a virgin, b ut it depends on how far the finger got
2006-10-11 15:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by Peter N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Medically, you are considered untouched if your hymen is intact. (This under normal circumstances with no physical issues, such as surgery, being born without or other...) But really, I would not consider her a virgin because penetration has occurred.
2006-10-11 15:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by ihave5katz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on you as a person some people think after the hymen is broken you are no longer a virgin
2006-10-11 15:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by dropped_skittles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if that penis didn,t go inside guess what you still a virgin it only works if it pentrates inside the virgin.
2006-10-11 15:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't a virgin when you heam is ripped so if he ripped it whrn you were fingered than you are not a virgin ne more.. you ussually could tell it ripped if you start bleeding
2006-10-11 15:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by ♥_pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋