I have these two friends who borrowed some of my clothes and cds and now when i tell them to give it back they say that they never took it and they only give me some of the stuff! what should i do?? please tell me! I lost so many clothes and cds because of these two stupid idiots!
2006-10-11 15:18:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you have learned your lesson now and yoiu should never let people barrow clothes anyways.
Just be real with them. You should not worry about loosing these kinds of friends anyways! Tell them that you are not stupid and how ghetto they are by trying to steal your stuff. I would be pissed and go personally pick my stuff up from their house! and if you are too young to drive or something have your ma or dad do it. They will understand. Get your **** back and do not let someone do this to you again. Let it happen once they will try to do it again!
2006-10-11 15:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a sec... how can they say that they never took it but then give you some of the stuff back. Either they took stuff or not.
Are you still a teen? I'd tell their parents who, if they're thinking, would confront them with you and your parents there too. Then maybe they'll go to their rooms with everyone watching and make SURE they don't have any of your stuff.
Then I'd ditch them as friends. They're not worth it.
2006-10-11 15:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from now on make you friends sign out your cloths as well as your Cd's let them the price you paid and if they clame not to have borrowed them show them the book and tell them if they can't give it back they have to pay for what they have lost!
2006-10-12 05:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it's not THEIR fault that you lent your stuff to them. You made the choice to allow them to borrow your stuff. Maybe next time you will pay attention to the old saying "Never a borrower nor a lender be".
2006-10-11 15:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep giving it out if you know you ain;t gonna get it back. Well, they must not be good friends if they are gonna steal your stuff. I suggest get some new stuff and some new friends.
2006-10-11 15:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by Meagan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. That's happened to me so many times. Now I don't ever loan anything to anyone without assuming I'll never see it again.
2006-10-11 15:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you have learned your lesson now......
but anyway tell your parents. they wiill be able to help they can talk to your friends or your friends parents. that should work if no, just take them back the next time you are at there house.
2006-10-11 15:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by sarah m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back as much as you can from them and then kick them to the curb!!!! Friends like those you don't need enemies.
2006-10-11 15:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shoulda never let them and tell them to get their own but you are a good friend for doing that ,but you should put your name on one little part of anything on your stuff.
2006-10-11 15:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by Momentai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well now you know better.
If you want it back, then dont bother giving it away in the first place.
And by the way, let it go. Dont go nuts and get all pissed. Just let it go.
and dont lend things to them agian.
2006-10-11 15:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋