????/
2006-10-11 15:09:49 · 23 answers · asked by Mordina Lestat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Absolutely. Everytime I have done that, it has turned out for the best. In fact, sometimes when I haven't called them, I have ended up talking to them for some reason or another. I bet that they are thinking about calling you too. Someone told me that whenever you start thinking about someone, that person starts thinking about you at the same time.
2006-10-11 15:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by dhkeys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all make sure that the reason you stopped talking to them can be sorted out, no point making contact and then finding out there still chewing over the past in a bitter mood. Sometimes a bit of humble pie goes a long way, and if there true friends time makes no difference to your relationship with them, good luck be brave take the chance what have you to lose but everything to gain, TJ
2006-10-12 04:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Biscuithands 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends. Was it just a lost of time that stopped you from talking before..or did you have a big fight about something?..Either way, if you feel like calling and making the first move...go for it!..Spill out what's happend during the time..resolve whatever if needed..just get back to talking. You can never have too many friends.
(unless, this person was abusive or something to you..then no..stay clear and far)
2006-10-11 22:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends to what reasons you dint call your friends,were you busy in something? or was it intentionally that you didnt call them or is it NOW that you need the help of some of your friends is why you want to call them???
It all depends why?
but then you can give it a shot! and tell them the truth as to why you didnt call them.They will understand if they take you as a friend.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-11 22:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by dj_naabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to talk to them. Mind you, if you have waited 3 years, they probably won't even remember you, let alone think of you as a friend.
2006-10-11 22:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by GORDO BLAKHART 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, I did it after 1 year and it was like we had never stopped talking at all...
2006-10-12 05:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by Fu Manchu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it depends ...
you have to think about why you haven't talked to them for so long ...
If you just merely lost contact then i think you should talk to them. This could then lead on to you perhaps being close mates again. you never know, maybe they're sitting there wondering if they should call you too ... :-p
2006-10-12 02:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't talked to them for 3 years are they still your friend?? how did the friendship end????if you just grew apart and hey you are thinking of them wondering how the hell they are then yeah go for it ..but if it ended on hateful terms if they wanted to talk to you again they would...
2006-10-11 22:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....they are probably wondering what your up to....i never saw friends for years and i would just turn up or call them....it's nice to see old mates again...contact them again and do some reflecting....it's fun
2006-10-11 22:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you left them in good standing who knows you might get a new best friend (again)
2006-10-11 22:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by Guy 29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋