My Friends has bean preg for like 3 weeks now and she is like way scared and she does not know what to do. We go to a public school and the pregnate girls go to alternative school . I dont know what to do. Should i tell her mom?
2006-10-11 15:07:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I don't believe this is your place, but as a friend you should insist that she at least see a doctor, if she's keeping the baby she needs proper medical attention, diet and vitamins. She's gotten herself pregnant and needs to be responsible now, the mature thing to do is for her to talk to her mom about it. The longer she waits the harder it will be, she needs an experienced shoulder right now...thats a Mom's place, taking care of their children and their childrens children.
Good luck to your friend, and you she'll need a good friend to stick by her.
Michelle
2006-10-11 15:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way She Will tell her parents when she is ready. I say just be a good friend and keep this to yourself until she is ready to let it out. besides it is still early she is only 3 weeks she can tell her parents now but should wait until she is at least 3 months along. good luck and be a good support for your friend that is what she needs most of all
2006-10-11 22:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes maybe you could drop hints like bringing up baby clothes in front of mom then acting all like ohh my god did I just say that? but your friend could have things go really wrong with her or the baby her mom need to know so she can help never be afraid of your moms they love you and want only the best for you and will help in any way they can but remember the lesson learned here WEAR A CONDOM OR JUST DON'T DO IT.
2006-10-12 04:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by NRG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it. Let her do it. It may help her begin to have a relationship with her mom in a way you never knew. Just be supportive of your friend, don't break her trust in you, she may need you after she tells her mom(depending on how she takes it). make sure your friend is being seen by a doctor right away if she isn't already. They may be able to help her speak to her mom also. try your local family planning center or human services agency.
2006-10-11 22:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by tabbikat 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No you should not tell your friends mom. It is not your place at all. She has to be the one to tell her what is going on. I am pretty sure that her mom will find out when she notices that she is not having a period if she pays that much attention. All you can really do is be their to support her.
2006-10-11 23:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by firefighter bound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a grown married women pregnant with my 3rd i did not tell my mom till i was 4 months. IT'S HER PLACE to tell! let her come to terms in her own head before she breaks the news to her mom she has a right to get prepared before telling her mom. She trusted you to tell you DON'T BETRAY her trust that's a very nasty thing to do to a friend. Be sure to supprt her be sure she is seeing a doctor.
2006-10-11 22:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is only very early in her pregnancy I think she needs time to get her head around it before telling her parents, She will have to tell them soon before she starts showing but its not your place to tell her parents just think how you would feel if you were in her position, Even when not at school it takes time to be ready to tell your parents your pregnant, I'm married and waited a month after we found out to tell our parents, just so we got our head around it first before we had to deal with what they thought. You are her friend and need to be there to support her, not inter-fear. Just try to be there for her without to much judgement.
I really don't think you should but in and tell her parents that's up to her, it could even make it worse for her, Maybe you should supportt her and tell her your happy to be there for her when she tells her parents as a suppor person. So she doesn't feel completely alone.
2006-10-11 23:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by mj_missi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Even if you're close friends that's not your job nor your business unless she shares with you what happens between her and her mom after SHE tells her.
Part of being pregnant and having a child is growing up and acting like an adult.
2006-10-11 22:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by Annie Hightower 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, your friend is the only person who should tell anyone. Try to convince your friend to tell her mom, or at least her school guidance counseler. An adult should know, but let your friend be the one who tells someone.
2006-10-11 22:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know your age but ask your friend to please tell her mom. ask her if she wants you to go with her for support. She really needs to act as soon as possible. I dont know your religious belief. But for all those involve (the guy as well) her parents need to know so that they all can start planning. Of course there will be some anger and disapointment but thats to be expected.
2006-10-11 22:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋