ok well he was suposed to ride the bus with me yeaturday so i went to the gurls reatroom to fix my hair before i see him and he was having sex with my best friend should i dump him or just forget about it and move on ?????????????// please help me
sincerely*~Boogy~* or *~Paris~*
2006-10-11 15:05:51 · 21 answers · asked by boogy 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Dump him and severe relations with your friend, you can't trust them any more, although it will be wise to try to get an explanation
2006-10-11 15:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by Luis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, from past experiences once a cheat always a cheat. They all say the won't do it again, but as soon as you think all is well they are back at it again. I would loose him, don't cry or let him know he hurt you, i think they feed off that. As far as your best friend goes, she isn't considered a friend at all if she new he was involved with her best friend. You need to loose both of them and find someone who will appreciate you and be honest. Not cheaters allowed. I know it is hard but I went through the same thing with a so called "best friend" and I let it go and forgave both of them, later on I found out he was sleeping with others and she was sleeping with him in my own bed. So leave them both you will be better off in the long run. Trust me.
2006-10-11 22:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by tranquility 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People dont change, and its easier to commit a mistake again if there are no consiquences the mistake is made the first time... you be smart, or get bitten again.. if you want to get hurt again and have no self respect, stay with him, otherwise find someone new and much better.
2006-10-11 22:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um....Dump him now. Having sex in a public school bathroom, which I am assuming that's where they were, is gross and unsanitary. If they didn't get an STD from eachother, they'll get one in there. Don't be a push over
2006-10-11 22:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by Roseann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, any guy who would do that is way not good enough 4 u!
2006-10-11 22:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should know this answer already..
dump him why would you wanna stay with a guy that had sex with your BEST FRIEND. and you should find a better best friend too
2006-10-11 22:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should leave his @$$. it's wrong for both your bestfriend and your boyfriend to sleep together. but if you do decide to talk to him say "IF YOU WANTED TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE, WHY DIDNT YOU JUST LEAVE ME THEN CHEAT ON ME" but karma is a ***** and sooner then you know he's going to come crying back to you sayin that she cheated on him with one of his bestfriends :)
see how it all works!!!!!!!
and to get over him, dont talk to him EVER, read a good book, listen to a chris brown or ne-yo cd and you'll be JUST FINE!!!!!
2006-10-11 22:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by mi$$. Brat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl! you need to leave his sorry behind and move on
2006-10-11 22:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by sunny4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your to nice if your even asking this question, leave him, and find another best friend, apparently she is garbage just like him.....
2006-10-11 22:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by Justcurious81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them both go. If he did it once and you forgive him he would do it again and again. And as for your so called friend she is not your friend at all.
2006-10-11 22:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋