me and my fieance are getting married in 1 week from 2 night and im a big afraid of that 1st night (you know what i mean). i am not that big and we both are virgins. but still im scared that she will be disappointed with my "size". i measured myself and im 3 8/10 just shy of 4 inch. is that a good size. im still scared though...ive been this size for a long time. and im wondering is my size ok. HELP?
2006-10-11 14:57:28 · 13 answers · asked by lxahlers 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
no we have not seen eachother n the shower b4 we're 2 nervous...we tried a few time but bearly made it to our undergarments
2006-10-11 15:28:01 · update #1
It is ok if you are comfortable in your own skin. She's not marrying to because of the size of your penis, and I'm sure she won't leave you because of it either. My fiance isn't as big as the other 4 men I have been with, but I love him and I could care less about the size. You both will find the ways that satisfy you best in time...since you are each others first and will be newly weds, it shouldn't take long. You don't need acceptance from anyone on here....be happy in your own skin and have a great life with your wife!!! Congrats!!
2006-10-11 15:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to be nervous, but you shouldn't worry. Keep in mind that she is probably nervous too.
Honestly, size is not important. A man can be a good lover or a not so good lover regardless of how big his penis is.
What makes someone a good lover is about intimacy--the caring, the thoughfulness, the attention, the connection. Treat your partner with respect. Treat her the way you would like to be treated. If the two of you love each other enough to get married and you have waited to have sex the connection and love should be incredible. It is all of those things that make sex great. Be open minded and take your time too. Don't rush into it---pay attention to her, kiss her, touch her etc. That is important. And, remember that no two people have great sex the first time together, let alone the first time at all. Learning each others likes and dislikes and so forth takes time. Expect it to be akward. Go into it allowing yourself a little sense of humor about how akward it is for you. And, most importantly talk to your partner beforehand (ie. before your wedding day) that you are nervous--she'll probably tell you that she is too and it might make you both feel much better overall.
2006-10-11 22:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea77thst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a considerate lover, size is not the important factor. I suppose a nine inch penis would be good for just ******** like porn stars do but a man and a wife make love with their entire bodies. If you are gentle and thorough and eager to please you have everything a man needs to please a woman.
Very few women orgasm just by penetration no matter the man's penis size. Clitoral stimulation with mouth or fingers or by rubbing your penis across it can feel better than insertion for many women.
Your bride is marrying a man, not just a penis. She will love all of you.
2006-10-11 22:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by catalamity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The size does not matter, it is how u use it.
Most men range from 4-9 inches.
It doesnt matter about size , it is how u use it on her.
Go slow at first and make sure she gets on top and gives u back what u gave her.
2006-10-11 22:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly...I know this sounds cliche, but size does not matter as much as guys think it does. Women actually don't have that many nerves on her "insides". You just want to make sure to really stimulate her on the "outside"...if you know what I mean. That's where it really counts! Good luck and HAVE FUN!!!!
2006-10-11 22:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are knd of on the small size *no offense* but if she is a virgin than she probably won't notice,have you two ever seen each other naked?also don't worry about it tho there is more than 1 body part you can use to help satisfy each other
GOOD LUCK & CONGRATS
2006-10-11 22:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Size doesn't matter. It's what you do with the package. Besides, there are other things you can do to pleasure her too, besides sex. Also, if she is a virgin too, she will have nothing to compare to, and if she really loves you, it won't matter in the first place.
2006-10-11 23:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Paris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will both be fine. You love each other. Take things slow and easy and be loving and kind with each other. Savor this time together. Best of luck to you both.
2006-10-11 22:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by Fritzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the size probably isn't the most important thing. Try treating her gently and lovingly and that counts more.
2006-10-11 22:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by George M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one small penis.
Here's my question though....even if you're saving yourself for marriage and haven't had sex yet, haven't you two seen each other naked??? If not, you're in for some difficult times on that wedding night.
2006-10-11 22:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋