Okay there is this boy in my class that I like and he finds out. No problem. Well I make a list of all the boys I like and put it in this folder. No problem. I didn't think about anyone finding it. Problem. He goes though my backpack when we are at lunch and finds it. I had his picture, his weight and height estimate, where he works and his full name. He shows his friends and now they call me a stalker everytime they see me what should I do?
P.S.
I m in high school
2006-10-11 14:48:21 · 17 answers · asked by Melody 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ignore them. If they are making fun of you they shouldn't be mature enough to go to high school. I know what it feels like to be teased and if you act like you don't care it takes the fun out of it for them
2006-10-11 14:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by hpfanatic5566 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was something you never ever want to do again. Next time leave the folder at home. Never bring something like that to school. Tell him that you made a list of all the guys you know that you were building an inventory of guys for a game you and your cousin were going to play at a pajama party. You had no intention of stalking him it was just a harmless game and you were having to come up with a few guys names and pictures of your own. Tell him she was doing the same thing. That this was only one picture and you had lots more of the other guys but if he is offended you will leave him out of the game. Tell him you did not mean him any harm. How did you end up with a picture of him anyway? Tell him if he is that big of a jerk that you will throw the picture away.
2006-10-11 22:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hello how did he find it out in the 1st place if it was that confidential? anyways now that the blunder has been done........u should try talking to him or give him weird answers like u were just having fun! well i know it must be really hard 4 u but then be confident n walk the air like a queen ............u will surely come out of the problem in a jiffy!
2006-10-11 21:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by studiousgal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main problem is not what the friends think but what the boy thinks if hes like eww thats sick that you'd do that to me n all then ur pretty much done. if he doesnt care thats good on your part. if you still like the boy make sure hes not freaked out about it. your friends will eventuall die down on what they say to you you just need to give it some time
2006-10-11 21:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping details of people is common in some occupations ... polititians, managers, people who depend on customer loyalty.
I bet you have seen this idea from someone else, so blame them ...
"Sorry, Fred. My uncle is a businessman and he keeps a record of his favourite customers so he can treat them better. I suppose a bit of that rubbed off on me. The only reason I did it was , well, I do like you ..."
2006-10-11 21:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by upf_geelong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how embarrassing! Act like it doesn't bother you and make jokes about it- and tell them watch out or they will be on your list too! Or just ignore them and put your list in a more private place- like at home between your mattress and box spring- D
2006-10-11 21:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could lie and say it was ur friends weirdness or even a personal joke between u and ur friend. maybe u should keep thoughs kind of things at home? im sorry what happened to you and i wasnt able to help better, i hope it all works out.
2006-10-11 21:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~Brittany~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never never write down anything on paper that can incriminate you later. The damage has been done. All you can do is wait it out til it blows over and they forget about it.
2006-10-11 21:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try addressing it directly with him to head off further speculation, with an "I'm not a stalker, I just like you" attitude.
2006-10-11 21:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by fuzzyglowcar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use humor and laugh it off. If you let anyone know they are getting to you then they will never stop. Just laugh and tell them that is really funny.
2006-10-11 21:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by papricka w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋