Just Curious
Lets say: this particular girl/lady really loves this one guy say a close friend about 9-10 years already but this guy is not interested to be more then friends
would you?
Ladies : Degrade yrself and offer him sex and allow him to do whatever he wants up to his imagination (bear in mind the girl is a virgin, considered a good gerl and will never do this kind of thing) Reason being she loves him too much and desperate for him to love her back. She knows he is not interested in being more than just friends.
Guy: If this was offered to you (you know she loves you like crazy and willing to do anything for you).. would you actually agreed to the proposition and treat her like a whore (take advantage of the situation) or instead refused the offer and knocked some sense into her. will your opinion of her change(as you have always respected her.. so for her to ask is like a revelation). you dont have a girlfren or any relationship now
Need yr views
Thanks
2006-10-11 14:46:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you nuts? Don't even think about it. No guy would fall in love with a girl just because he had sex with her.
2006-10-11 14:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by smarties 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would refuse the offer, because its not in me to take advantage of a friend of 10 years, It would feel totally akward afterwards, and I don't think I would lose respect for her because guys can be whores too. Thinking about having sex with a girl or guy you love, is totally natural in my opnion. Everyone has their desires.
Myself, I have a friend of 5 years and we have always been close. We dated when we first met, broke up, but till this day we still have those same feelings of love for one another. We want to have those desires fulfilled by each other, but its not something we can do or promise to do, Our friendship has grown strong over the years and its alot easier to stay away from eachother in that way because we have such a respect for eachother and we really think that sex would complicate everything. Especially since we both are with other people.
I hope my answer, answers the question.
2006-10-11 15:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose I would be flattered in the respect that she would be willing to lower herself like that, but I would have to politely decline the offer, because I would never take advantage of a good friend like that, and I would remind her that she doesn't need to do things like that to get a man. I know she would probably be hurt by this, but I would hope in time she would realize that I was just watching out for her best interests. Friendships can last a lifetime, sex is fleeting at best. I hope this helps, hon. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-10-11 14:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I could take advantage of her. I'd probably tell her that I appreciate the offer, but I just don't see her as the kind of girl I could have a long term relationship.
You could say that is cold, but it is direct and to the point. I haven't taken advantage of her and I've tried to let her know that I respect her as something more than a life support system for a vagina. No girl deserves to have her emotions monkeyed with, even if she is doing it unintentionally.
2006-10-11 14:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay no- I would never do that. sweetie if a guy is just not that into you, you can have his dick in your nose while humming his balls, a banana in your butt and some other hot *** girl licking your coch and he is still not going to fall in love. Simple rule of thumb when it comes to the hot guy- whatever is easy he will not want. and it seems to me if he knows your ga ga- its way to easy. Dissapear for a few days, no calls, no emails, no telling him where you ar going, about a week should do. reappear with a new guy on your mind and feel free to talk about him, and oh yeah- a new makeover- look hot while you are talking off his ear about all of the things you want to do to this new guy. You will get him. I promise. Dont be a ho-stay in school
2006-10-11 14:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by BeautyMark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!what a question.Truthfully I would refuse the offer cause she is a friend.I respect her and her fiendship too much than put her in a position like that.My view of her would not change because I know personally :trying to control emotions and how you feel about someone is a very hard thing to do.
2006-10-11 14:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by malenymph69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would I want to be with a guy that doesn't like me back? Especially if we have been friends for 9-10 years.
If the girl has sex with him, she is just going to like him more (that's what girls do) and then feel worse because he still doesn't like her.
Listen:
SEX DOES NOT MAKE A MAN FALL IN LOVE
got it.
2006-10-11 14:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER DEGRADE YOURSELF or demean yourself. Dear, he may not be interested in women, he may not be interested in you as an erotic partner, he may not be ready to be that close to anyone at this time in his life whether you offer your virgin body or not. That you use the word degrade means you see it that way and degrading yourself is no way to be the beautiful soul you were born to become! Enjoy the guy's friendship without risking losing it for now....
2006-10-11 14:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by Charlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the girl, right? Don't ever degrade yourself alright, thats just wrong. And remember, when you have sex with a close friend, the relationship is never the same.
2006-10-11 14:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me recently. I have been resisting but my heart tells me if she is persistent in her efforts, I may give up soon and take the plunge. Sorry, girls, its just not easy to say 'No' when the offer is on the platter.
The only thing I can think of is to do something really stupid and get her to hate you. This is something I am giving serious thought to.
2006-10-11 14:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Krishna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you dare. Even if he takes you up on it, 1. it may ruin the friendship. 2. Sex does NOT equal love. 3. he may not take you up on it and the friendship will still be ruined. 4 that is just wrong. Especially if it is your first time. You dont want to remember your first time like that.
2006-10-11 15:01:56 · answer #11 · answered by denpita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋