I used to be with my best friend a lot, we would pass most of the day together. I feel very sad because I really care about her and now we cant spend that much time together. I call her everyday but she doesnt . She only calls me if she needs something. and I feel bad because I though she cared about me, I though she missed me a lot.... but it looks like she doesnt.
Im confused/.... should I keep calling her and work our friendship out, or should I move on...??? Is it worth it??
2006-10-11 14:33:43 · 15 answers · asked by X22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think I became too attached to her.
thats not good right?
2006-10-11 14:49:57 · update #1
i think you should talk to her about it . see how she feels about not being as close and if you are to clingy. if she doesnt feel the same way then just move on, a real friend would stick it out and try to work through it . if she doesnt then you know you are wasting your time.
good luck
oo and i know what you are going through...
i have the same problem
2006-10-11 15:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by sarah m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that is the same way. Keep calling her but try not to do it everyday. Don't make yourself look needy or clingy. I made this mistake. Try talking to her about it, go to a quiet area and let her know how you feel. Hopefully she'll tell you what you want to hear. If she doesn't then it's best you move on. Hope everything works out for you!
2006-10-11 22:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by SMD8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u now what don't call anymore! when she calls u the next time don't answer. Then when she calls again for something she needs, confront and tell her u only call me when u need things! The best thing to do is to avoid her calls for a while. And if u bump with in the streets and she confronts u tell her the same. people like this need to be taught a lesson. Then after that work out ur friendship as best as ya'll can !
2006-10-11 21:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She probably isn't the type to call people. I know i don't call my best friend and we couldn't be closer anyway. she calls me at least three times a week and i only call her when i need something, but I talk to her every day at school. If it really bugs you, then tell her, she should understand, but she might not feel the need to call you if you call her everyday.
2006-10-11 21:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by Rabidactyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about her you should try and work out the friendship. Talk to her and tell her how u feel, thats the only way u can get a deffinite answer of wheter its worth it or not.
2006-10-11 21:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by kms010494 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should ask your friend whats wrong with her. if she gets an attitude then just forget it there is plenty of people who truly care for you and will always be there for you. if she has a problem then listen to her give her your opinions (in a good way!) and try to fix her problem then she would know that you truly want to stay friends with her. but remember it is kinda hard if you cant spend time with her but if she is a true friend then she will understand you cant be with her. but remember if its cause you spend too much time with your boyfriend you have to think friends should always come first. boys will come and go. i hope you get your friend back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-11 22:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by shortyrb1023 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't call her. sit with her at lunch. if she doesn't want to, pull her aside for a few minutes and talk to her. why aren't you being a great friend to me? i really miss you and you seem to be growing farther away from me. why? she may be uncomfortable or she may tell you something that really hurts your feelings. if she does hurt your feelings, get up and go to your other friends. a friend that hurts other people's feelings isn't worth it. THAT'S when you move on.
I had trouble with friends too, but for me, one of my best friends wanted to have a "war" with me. i was ripped!!
good luck!!
2006-10-11 21:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she's really ur best friend, try and work it out. but eventually, U HAFTA MOVE ON!!!! i had a really good friend and we started growing apart, she got new friends and so did i. I tried to work of our friendship but we were changing too much and growing apart so we r still friends, just not good ones
2006-10-11 22:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by mari the AWESOME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't call you, then don't call her. Try confronting her and ask her if there is a problem with you. If she says there's nothing wrong, then let her be. She could be going through something at home or she's just going through a phase.
2006-10-11 21:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you call her your best friend right? well she probably does to but she's just busy with other things. she's worth it if you care about her and still like her as a friend.
2006-10-11 21:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by airstriker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋