I think i'm bi because i'm attracted to some guys and a some girls. Anyway I guess that makes me bi ... i can deal with that. So just realizing (or maybe I knew all along and am just starting to accept it) no one knows (except you guys ... if that counts) That I'm like this.But hey, Im only asking because I cant stop thinking about this girl, amber. thats the only reason Im wondering. So, My real question is: Should I tell Amber how I feel about her? But Amber is lesbian, and she has a girlfriend already. And it would make it kinda bad if I get rejected, seeing that i go to a really small school and word gets around rather quickly. and i play sports with her, also, she graduates in 2-3 years. And the hardest part to consider is that my best friend, Kate, likes Amber and has gone out with her and still has feelings for her. Im in a rather tough position here.
2006-10-11 14:23:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should probably talk to your best friend Kate first. If she is your best friend, she might be able to help you in dealing with your confused feelings. Just remember that all things can change with time. Don't shut yourself out because of fear of rejection. If they can't accept you for who you are, they aren't truly your friends.
You should most definitely tell Amber.(if you are close enough to get into that kind of a conversation) You say she is already seeing another girl, so she of all people would understand your attraction to other guys. The only bad thing that could happen is for her to say she is not interested in you and that is not the end of the world. You have so much more time and will be able to find someone who likes you for you.
You haven't slept with any guys from what you said so you're just curious right now. You also said that the 2 of you are still in school which (I assume) you are still young. You still have a long time to define yourselves and your sexuality.
Good luck hun, and blessed be.
2006-10-11 14:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by LadyMagick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so. she seeing someone and your friend likes her. you'll just end up opening a whole new can of worms. too much drama
2006-10-11 14:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by delightfulone87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats messed up. yuck
2006-10-11 14:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋