I have a friend and we have only known each other for 3 months. We hit it off really well, but we are making possible plans for me to move in with her. Her roomate though, does not like me too much. Shes never said it, but I can tell. Shes pregnant and needs the money she will be saving so she is okay with me moving in. Know my problem is, i will be going to there place from my fathers, and I will be paying almost 300 dollars more to share a room with my friend. Is it worth it? I do want to get out of the house, but I will be taking a lose.
2006-10-11 13:43:35 · 25 answers · asked by LiveFastDiePretty 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You have a lot to think about. Do a list of pro's & con's. Is the roommate going to be rotten to you when you move in?
What happens when she has the baby? Do you want to live in a house with a new born? Just a couple of things to consider.
Good luck!
2006-10-11 13:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by woohoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You've only known one a short time the other does'nt like you (Your Words). Space will be limited and privacy almost non-existent and this with people that hardly know each other or just tolerate each other. That is a recipe for disaster. Save your money and find a small place, affordable for you. Moving out of your parents house is tougher than you think don't compound the problem for yourself. You'll only be asking dad for a key again in the near future once the three of you are not friends
2006-10-11 20:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by big dawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your independence then it's worth the money. However, if your main goal is to save as much money as possible, then this is not a good move. So which is more important to you right now? Your independence or to save money? And hey if you did decide to move out and things don't work out, you can always move back in with your dad.
2006-10-11 20:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only problem is if you move in with her and you don't get along with her roommate that is going to cause friction with you. That is going to be YOUR home too. You have the the right to enjoy it, but will you with her? What if you and your friend of only 3 months of a falling out, can you go back to your Dad's? If you move out will you be putting them in a more financial strain than what they already are? If you do move in, I strongly suggest you have a written agreement as to what you are going to pay and by all mean keep all receipts!!
2006-10-11 20:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by drew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not worth it. Fighting will eventually occur. And you value your friendship leave at that. You can pay 300 $ and live alone without all of the BS you will get I promise. The privacy is what will prob, be the issue. You really need to think a little harder, On paper write all pros and cons and see if they weigh out.Good luck
2006-10-11 20:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by tqpinklady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is worth it if u guys are like so like each other and More than best friends. But i wouldnt move in if its just a friend u barly like. And if its between than id say no because it is a lot of money and the people dont like u so its not worth it!
2006-10-11 20:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by FP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only move if you can see yourself saving enough to move away very soon.
Don't move -in & be stuck there. If you must be stuck anywhere
it should be with someone who love you free & clear, no catches.
Your father would even have your back. Do they?
Talk with your father about allowing you to get the Best apt. of
your own before you get suckered in.
When people think you can't do any better, they treat you like
sh it.
Don't go into any relationship where you are 1 down.
Good Luck!
2006-10-11 20:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
$300 is okay for an apartment, it would depend how desperately you want to get out of your dad's house. I would say if your not 100% comfortable moving in with them then don't. Especially if your budget is gonna really stretch, wait until your better prepared financially.
2006-10-11 20:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Mandee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
300 dollars isn't a lot of money to be living on your own. go for it! as for the pregnant roomate...please be patient with her. there is almost nothing harder than to be young, single and pregnant. she has tons of hormones and other things to worry about.
2006-10-11 20:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by I Drive a Mini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to end a friendship is to become roommates. Stay home and save your money until you can get a place of your own.
2006-10-11 20:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋