My english is just fine. Sometimes, white people have indicated that I had an Aussie (Australian) accent. It is because I live in Australia. Others say different. I've got a mixture you can say, but the English is understood by Aussie white people, here. I've got strong traditional values though and I follow my religion, but I am free with people. I do not drink or eat pork/bacon and cannot have sex before marriage.
So, what's the problem with you white girls? :S :( Why don't you care or like me or whatever? Why can't you white girls get along with me? Is it because of the traditional values mentioned above? Why are they wrong? Why would being friends to someone be connected to traditions or religions?
2006-10-11 13:40:53 · 6 answers · asked by K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Please...you're kidding right? What's the problem with us white girls?
Just about every white girl I know has been out with men of almost every race and color. To state the obvious, personality has as much to do with attraction as anything else, including race and skin color. With your sweeping generalization of "white" women, maybe you need a little fine-tuning in that area.
You can't paint all of us with the same brush, but if you are then maybe that is the root of the problem. You're trying so hard to be accepted by "white" women that it's probably obvious. FYI, obvious is unattractive and can repel rather than attract.
Do you have friends, male and female, of all cultures and colors? Date around, mix it up, you'll find that there are people from every race and religion that will like you and there will always be some who won't be attracted to you. You need to take color out of the equation.
You say white girls can't get along with you. Do girls of every other color and race get along with you? Are you confident enough to approach a woman you like, regardless of her color, or do you shy away from "white" women? Have you had one or two disappointments or heartbreaks with "white" women, causing you to assume we're all alike?
I truly feel you should do a bit of personal inventory and examine your motives and resulting behaviour in these situations.
Traditions and religion can play a big part in determining compatability because, given a choice, most of us would choose someone with similar philosophies about life and beliefs so as not to be at odds all the time. We have choices in life and it's natural to gravitate toward something familiar and similar to us.
That's not to say, however, that opposites don't attract, because they do. They just rarely stay together because it's the similarities and common ground that keep people together long-term.
2006-10-11 14:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by Debra 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok I'm a white girl and I found out that many indians are better then Europeans, they have this nice thing in them which catches the eye Personally I am not easy and made that clear 2 white or indian guy, but some indian guys want 2 plan ahead like marriage which kind of scared me where I live the indian's don't take white girls cause they r easy, they take them because they play hard 2 get
2016-03-28 05:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't 'try' to impress anyone, that would be phony. Been there and tried it on for size. It felt awful, ugly, hollow and shallow too.
Can't give you any other answers ~ other than to suggest that ~
In asking "What's the problem with you white girls," makes it sound as though someones likely to be 'a victim' in your dilemma.
[ do you realise that you are implying that 'there is No Problem with none-white girls' ....which leaves a sense of a questionable morality here in you.! ]
Someone (eventually) will 'like you because of who you are,' see in you a worth that matters to them. Just Do Not try to turn it into a racial or cultural thing.
You may well be correct (given your locality - wherever that is!), but that's their loss and problem to deal with. But, if you do turn it into 'that,' then you'll be the loser because you'll only succeed in making yourself into 'the victim.'
That wins you no points and will give you a sad and bad disposition.
Be patient..... and
Best of luck.
Sash.
2006-10-11 14:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Race has nothing to do with anything.
My fiance is latin. I love guys of all races. It's personality that is important. Maybe you're not outgoing enough or maybe certain girls just aren't interested you.
But don't label all white girls as having something wrong with them.
2006-10-11 13:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because white girls find Indian guys ugly
2006-10-13 06:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 7⤋
they just think you are UGLY
2006-10-11 13:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by swissalex4 2 · 5⤊ 4⤋