my boyfrined and i have been going out for over a year and his mother hates me and she forbids him to see me sometimes!! and i really love him and i just dont know what to do! we are so young and in love its sick! i will do anything to stay with him!!
2006-10-11 13:36:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depends how old you both are. I would just try to avoid the mother. No sense of making her more mad at you. Have you given her anything for mothers day or for her birthday? Have you tried to be nice and let her be the mean one? Sometimes being nice to the other person throws them off and makes them feel bad for being mean. But you know, you can't make someone like you.
2006-10-11 13:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by lazycat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh deja-vu Just a month ago I got out of a situation where my (ex) bf's mom hated me. She was totally nasty to me and told him to stay away. So he snuck around to see me. He was a momma's boy sadly. I just hope your guy isn't a momma's boy.
I wish I could offer some kind of advise but seeing as I couldn't do anything about his mother there is probably nothing you can do about his. Just don't let it drag you down ok? No man is worth your sanity!
Wish we could take all the controling mothers and put them on an island till they get a grip!
2006-10-11 13:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends how old you are....if you really love each other as much as you say you do then nothing should stand in your way.
Also does his mother have a reason for not liking you?
He should also talk to his mom and ask why she feels that way and he should explain to her why he feels the way he does about you, maybe she would give you a chance.
2006-10-11 13:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by PeachN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe his mother just want him to stay in house or what. Maybe you really must be spending more time with her. For example you all have family gathering for lunch or dinner at least once a week. And be good to her and more caring, she might be accepting you.
2006-10-11 13:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you said it your self, your young. until you are both old enough, the parents make the decisions. all i can tell you is that if you really want to be with him, do it when the parents say that you can. other wise they can make it so that you dont see each other at all. when you are old enough, and you still like each other then you can make the decisions.
2006-10-11 13:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by here to help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard truth, he will never pick you over his mom...
Easy truth, Mommy can't do the things to and for him the you do...
Overall truth, if you are so young is it worth the headaches and pain..Love isn't suppose to hurt all the time....
2006-10-11 13:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by dee-dee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not you she hates,its the fact that she is no longer his whole world.and afraid of losing him . if you are under16 be care full.because you don;t want her going to your parents when she is in one of her unrealistic moods if over 16 you only have a few years to stick it out.things will work out.good luck.
2006-10-11 13:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing for you to do except get good grades and pass your exams. The rest will take care of itself.
2006-10-11 13:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's best you talk to your in-law and find out way she doesn't like you.... she could feel that your taking away something from her..... is your boyfriend the youngest son or the only boy?....
2006-10-11 13:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confront her about it and ask why she 'hates' you . is it possible he is telling his mom bad stuff about you behind your back? Get a new b/f
2006-10-11 13:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋