I want a boyfriend right? but i suffer from depression and last time i told my ex boyfriends about it they were cool and all but then after a few months they broke up with me cause they said i was too depressing and that really hurts me and i'm sacred and don't know what to do about it. Now i know this really cute funny sweet nice guy that i like and that likes me back but we are both afraid to take the next step.And i honestly don't know if i could handle going out with a guy and having him break up with me.What do i do?
2006-10-11 13:12:36 · 11 answers · asked by Jaybezchild 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There's no easy solution or magic formula for you to get what you want, but when you DO meet the right guy, it won't matter if you have three heads and one eye! He'll be into you for you, and he'll support you no matrter what!
Just keep that in mind and remember you're special just like anyone else, and there IS someone out there ready to meet you!
Be patient!
2006-10-11 13:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need counselling for your depression. If the guy is the right guy for you then he will love you just as you are, and you should never settle for less. But in order to fall in love in the first place, you might have to take a chance and trust in this guy. If you've been friends with him for a while (which you should do first) then you should know if you can trust him or not. Try the friends thing - it's okay to let him know you like him, just play hard to get a little until you get to know him.
2006-10-11 13:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by belleebuttons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stay single and concentrate on a good solid treatment for your depression. I sense that you use depression as an excuse for failed relationships. While I believe it can contribute if your partner is not tolerable, you still must be accountable for your behavior in the relationship. Remember that your happiness and mental health are yours to control !!! Do not look toward a partner to be the resolution to your depression because it will not work.
2006-10-11 13:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by Amy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why do you want a boyfriend?
If you're depressed you need to see your doctor so he can get you some help from a professional.
Then, you have to work on loving yourself before you can start to be in a relationship and love someone else.
You can't be happy with someone until you're no longer depressed.
2006-10-11 13:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self. If they already like you right now then what diffrence can it make to them. And remember you can always change depression, like its not always going to be there. You should just focus on the positive part of life. Make a list of all the blessings in your life and see what a diffrence it will make. Remember to love others first you must love your self. And things in life happen but we just need to make the best of it.
You are loved
2006-10-11 13:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by songbirdchelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send me a picture. I like you a lot. I mean a whole lot and depression is cool.
2006-10-11 13:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by drfyu g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date a depressed guy
2006-10-11 13:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were truley depressed you wouldnt want a boyfriend.
2006-10-11 13:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Jeni~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go c a doc 1st
then bf
2006-10-11 13:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get fixed, your broken.
2006-10-11 13:14:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋