2006-10-11 13:01:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well r u ready for sex? If not don't do it. If you choose to make sure it is safe. I got pregnant the 1st time I had sex
2006-10-11 13:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by R C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
beat him up. In no way is it OK for anybody to tell you, "you're ready to be f*cked" You are ready when you are ready, not when someone says you are. And you'll know when you are ready. Sex is responsibility. Don't get me wrong, sex can be great, but there's so many deceases that can come from it, complications, PREGNANCY.....seriously. When you feel that you can handle everything that comes from sex, and you love the guy you're with then go and have sex. I'm going to assume its your first time too, otherwise you wouldn't need help on when to have sex.
And if I'm right, make your first time special. A million people say it, and its true. Make it a good memory, not something you want to forget later. Make it a guy who loves you and cares about you, and even if you don't last with that guy, you know in your heart that that one time, you guys did love. Don't make it some random time with a guy who tells you something you're not sure of.
And honestly, if he's telling you that you're ready before you're sure you are, than I have serious doubts to if he really cares or not. If he cared he'd wait for you to tell him that you're ready. And he'd wait a long freakin time too. Your guy sounds like hes looking to score with you and not much else.
If you don't want to, if you're not ready, then don't. and if he doesn't like it, then hes not looking out for whats best for you, he's just looking out for himself. If this happens, dump his sorry butt and find somebody better!
2006-10-11 14:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Krustybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey darlin',
Well, that would depend on you wouldnt it? Are you ready or not ready? Going out with the person for a long time ( however long that might be ) doesnt make a difference it depends on you. So if your not ready then your not , and tell him that, Im sure he will respect your desision. I know my boyfriend did = ) in the beginning now its 3 years later and Im just beginning to enjoy making love with him. So if hes something great he will respect you.
Good luck.
2006-10-11 13:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by missscarlett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to be mentally and physically ready to take responsibility for your actions incase you become pregnant. The only sure fire way not to become pregnant is to not have sex at all no birth control is 100 percent effective. If you are ready for this and you love him I would say yes, but if you have any doubts never let any one pressure you into doing anything you dont wanna do. If he loves you he will wait I promise.
2006-10-11 13:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't state your age or whether you have had sex before. Do YOU feel ready for sex? Don't allow him to pressure you into anything and definitely use condoms and a backup form of contraception if you make the decision to have sex.
2006-10-11 13:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by zia269 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are asking this question then it is obvious you are not ready to do it , if he can't understand that then it's a problem. I think you BOTH need to be ready , not just him saying it's time , when the time is right it will happen but don't rush it if you're not comfortable with the idea.
2006-10-11 13:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're questioning it, I don't think you're ready yet. This is a huge thing that he's asking of you. If he doesn't want to wait, he's not worth it. Don't do it if you don't want to and don't feel obligated just because he says you've been together for a long time and it's about time.
2006-10-11 13:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by JoesWifee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run like hell. Having someone tell you when you are ready for sex is stupid. You will know without some horndog trying to get his rocks off on you just because he can't hold onto his urges.
Are you ready to become pregnant? Are you ready to get SDS? Clamydia, AIDS, SIDS, clap, syphyllis, herpes? Are you ready to throw your life away for a little scratching of yours and his itch? If he has a load to get rid of then introduce him to his right hand.
2006-10-11 13:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by Donald W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u ready? if ur having doubts, and u obviously are or u wouldnt be asking, then say no. you're not ready. if he cant respect that, then OH WELL. how long is a long time? a long time is different to different people.
2006-10-11 13:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Meli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CT girl's answer is terrible. Way to push your own insane beliefs on other people. Obviously a virgin. If you are ready then do it. People make too much of a big deal of their first time. I would just make sure that you are emotionally prepared for it, and that you are safe. Always use protection, and do what you feel is right.
2006-10-11 13:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by goldja2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋