i have a boyfriend and my co worker has a gf.. but we both flirt with eachoter.. both of us are int he act of not wanting to be with our bf/gf.. and i think he wants something to happen with us.. i have been with my bf for a year.. he is asn like me.. and we have so much in common, but if i feel if i lose with.. the new guy is mexican and we have such a different background.. but see this new guy (co worker is such an awesome guy. waht should i do?
2006-10-11 12:37:38 · 7 answers · asked by hey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do you really love your boyfriend? You could just be lusting over this other guy because he's new and it's exciting, but if it's lust it won't last.
2006-10-11 12:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by lilpinay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're contemplating cheating/ditching your boyfriend for this other guy, then clearly you are in the wrong relationship because you don't love your boyfriend. Consequently do the decent thing and end this current relationship because it isn't fair on him. If your co-worker does the same thing that'll be a bonus for you - although the fact that you're both, in effect, cheaters, means that you probably have a limited future. How could you ever really trust each other?
2006-10-11 19:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by John P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look. First off if its a co-worker i say pass. Its not cool getting involved with co-workers. Specially guys. Is it a booty call? Get to know him. If you get involved he will brag about you to their friends and soon everyone and work will know about your sex life. See as girl we are more sensitive then guys. Think about the possibility of getting attached and him dumping you later. Girl i say u pass. If your tired of your man, look for another one. A good man. Not a booty call.
2006-10-11 19:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by BATGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl follow your heart. Race shouldn't make any difference on how love feels. My husband is black and I'm mexican and it's never a factor of our relationship cuz we have LOVE.
2006-10-11 19:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We Mexicans taking H0es away from white guys?
What Pride!!!
2006-10-11 19:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut feeling but dooooooo nooooooooot cheat! it complicates things big time!
2006-10-11 19:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bang em both ... then see a doctor, as you will likely then have an STD
2006-10-11 19:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by phooey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋