i have been with my boyfriend for a year, but he has been yelling at me so much.. he is so controlling when he doesnt even have to be.. i feellike the more controlling he is..the more i wanna do bad stuff.. but if hes not.. i will be such a good girl.. well lately at work.. i have this coworker ..he has a great personality.. a better one that my current bf..and we are flirting righ tnow.. is that bad..what hsould i do?
2006-10-11 12:35:48 · 13 answers · asked by hey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yelling is a form of verbal abuse. Not good for a long term relationship. Leave your current BF before you deal with a coworker. While you are with the current BF, it is not good to flirt with other guys. You may be accused of cheating. Leave the BF first, and then you could go about your own business.
2006-10-11 12:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stay with a overly controling guy.
i married one. its been 25 years.lol.
i love him, he has settled down. , but he rules the roost.
he controls the remote..i hate that.
but he has so many other great qualitys.
but for you, lay the law down. if he cant stop it, take a time out.
maybe the new guy is more your match.
but...if you are trying to do bad things that can get you into trouble
and your b.f is trying to stop you and give good advice..well thats another story.
maybe he loves you and trys to keep all well.
its up to you.
just dont let him hit you!!!!
take a look at yourself. is he really controlling or keeping you out of trouble?
most likely he will not change.
really meditate on this.
dont cheat on him. change jobs if you love your b.f. and you decide he only trys to keep you out of bad stuff. god always makes a way out.
only u can answer. only u know all the facts.
2006-10-11 19:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by grasshopper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always end #1 BEFORE starting #2. Or, just don't start #2.
It's like being seperated from your husband, but dating new men. It's disrespectful. Either cut off the relationship with #1 or with #2; don't play with BOTH. You come across as callused and cheap.
Be a lady with class and learn how to decide and conduct yourself in such a way that you earn their respect as to how you handled the situation. Make up your mind and stick with it.
2006-10-11 19:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your current b/f is like being in jail and this new co- worker treats you right. Why do you stay in a relationship that is so restricted? Get out!
You can then be free to date, if you chose, to be with the new friend at work.
2006-10-11 19:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the boyfriend... even if the co-worker wasn't flirting with you, having someone constantly yelling at you and being critical of you is not healthy to begin with.
2006-10-11 19:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by smiley_140 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is so controlling then maybe you should break up with him. It also sounds like you have made your decision already. Be honest with your self and the men in your life
Good luck I hope i have helped you in some way
2006-10-11 19:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by tasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl leave him
he has no buisness hollering at u i dont know who he thinks he is hollering at a girl. he needa fix his attitude majorly. i would slap the mess out of him if he was hollering at me.
go with that coworker of ur
i know he gotta be better than that dog u got now
it isnt bad at all because that is what ur bf deserves
like they say :"what goes around comes around"
2006-10-11 19:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Future Basketball Playa #3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump your controlling boyfriend........plenty fishes are in the sea...why settle for less if u cant get more...u dont want to be in a relationship with a guy you cannot stand. its just not stable
2006-10-11 19:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by ghettoco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not happy w/ ur bf leave him then a while later maybe look into the ohter guy
2006-10-11 19:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the guy you are with now and then wait two weeks and then try and get with this guy at work!
2006-10-11 19:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by frontier girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋