I'm a guy. Shes been my friend for 4 years. I'm 16, shes 17. When i got back to school she was different. She was resting her arm on my knee, hugged me once, and stole my hat all the time. Then all the big stuff stopped for a while. But still tries to sit next to me, bumps right into m sometimes in the hallway. Writes on my arm and i think she touches my hand. Turns out her perfect guy desription fits me perfectly.A problem is she touches other guys too. Well she wrestled with one them once. She hits them like me. But it just seems like i get more attention from her. but she claims to do it to everyone. One thing is one of my friends thinks she likes me. But the big problem is shes bi. One girl leans on her and sh*it. But thats nothing really. Yesterday, all of us are hanging out. We seperate for our reasons. But somehow it was just us walking to a resturant. The walk there shes quiet doesnt say anything. Then we get there its a little shaky at first but we just talk for an hour about normal stuff. We start walking to aanother resturant. I tell a great joke, so she put her rm around me and tells me im awesome. Then she suggests getting another one of our friends Kelly. But she says it like everyone to go ahead but me and her would go and pick up Kelly. She goes and gets Kelly. Both of them show up at the resturant. It's just us three. Turns out the girl im worried about now and kelly are having a bad unofficial relationship. I'm just there quiet while they talk about their problems. Afterward she hugging her, talking to her, being with her as much as she can. We are talking but it seems like she would rather be with kelly. But kelly doesnt totally want anything to do with her. But she plays with other guys hair and stuff. So what i want to know is whats going on with my friend. Does she like me, is she more comfortable around me and what do i do about it.
2006-10-11 12:35:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd say she likes you. She may just use the 'bi' tag for attention. She is fairly young. From what you said...she really does like you. Go for it. You will ALWAYS wonder if you don't!
2006-10-11 12:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Troy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I can see is that the girl you're interested in is sending you mixed signals. This is very hard because she sends them to you and other people. Its hard to determine, but as a teenager if she called up a friend, it was to focus her attention elsewhere, especially when she seemed that she ignored you. This is how my guy friends handle this situation:
A) Take her out just the two of you. If she starts crossing her arms or not focusing her attention to you, it means she doesn't like you.
B) or You can flat out ask her. Say that you've been noticing that she's been very flirty with you and if there's something going on.
Srry I couldnt be much help.
2006-10-11 12:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by Aztec girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your friend needs some time to figure out who/what she wants. Girls go through phases, just like guys. She is 17, and she may be figuring out who she is. I would just, for now, be her friend. FRIEND. If it turns out that she doesn't know what's going on inside her, you don't want to always be the "Go back to guy when I need him then dump him when I find something else for a few months" person. I went through a similar thing as well when I was in high school. I didn't know what I wanted, and I tried different avenues (sounds like what she is doing). She may have something going on in her personal life that no one knows about and it is hard for her to talk to anyone. Give her time, and just be her friend. Even though that may be difficult, especially if you want to be involved with her romantically, but for now, I would keep that line in between you and not cross it, until you feel that she has kind of steadied herself.
2006-10-11 12:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's comfused,or can't make up her mind. You should take her aside and tell her to stop touching other guys, in a better wording. Are you interested in her? Do you want a relationship that is "official"?In that case you should break up with her; simply tell her that this isn't the kind of relationship you pictured and you feel that she is betraying you? She'll understand. Good luck.
2006-10-11 12:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Claire R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...that's a long story! I can't believe I actually finished it. Your friend is probably going through changes in her life. She is confused right now. She doesn't know what she want. You say that she's bi. She might have feeling for you who knows, I'm not her. But It seems to me that she is confused.
Best of Luck!~_^
2006-10-11 12:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by strawberry_kiss_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants her cake and she wants to eat it too! I know she's your friend and I'm sorry to tell you this but she's a bit of an attention whore. She wants to be desired by all....I don't think she really wants to date you. I think she just wants you to want her. She feeds off the attention. I'm sorry. You'll find a girl who's perfect for you. Just give it time.
2006-10-11 12:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by jill_valentine_otaku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol your right, this was long. but thats ok :)
i think your friend is just a very big flirt. i wouldn't take her actions to heart. im sorry if you started falling for her, but she has a lot going on with her, no? she flirts with a lot of guys, she flirts with a lot of girls, i think that is just how she is. I'd say she is just comfortable around you. keep being her friend, but start looking for a different girl who can give you the one on one attention you deserve.
2006-10-11 12:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by chikka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, me bein a girl i've done dat to certain guys n i noticed dat there's times when they start likin me for doin dat...so adam i think she just very playful n like u said she probably feels very comfortable with u but just as a very good friend other wise she wouln't have brought kelly wit u guys...so my suggestion is to just ask her how she truly feels bout u...n hopefully she's honest ;)
2006-10-11 12:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by The Taste U can See 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it try actinng like that wit her if she stops she don't like u if not she does
2006-10-11 12:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by shatorris R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she likes u while ur there then someone else comes along and shes no where 2 b found. dont take her seriousely
2006-10-11 12:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋