i was at camp this summer and i hung around with a guy a lot, but we were just friends. i already knew who he was but hadn't really talked to him. a few weeks later school was back in and he is in one of my classes but i havent said anything to him at all. i dont wantt ot go out with him or anything , but if i talked him now it'd be wierd cuz i havent said anything in 3 months
what should i do?
2006-10-11 12:26:43 · 12 answers · asked by Whoa!!Whoa!! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When you get a chance, walk up to him and say hey.
I always enjoy someone I haven't talked to in a long time talking to me.
2006-10-11 12:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by godathonone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if you want to remain his friend, you can casually walk up to him, and tell him the truth. Something like "How have you been?" With this I am sure he will reply with something like "Good. I have seen you around, but you acted like you didn't know me." Where in response, you tell him the truth. "I saw you and was going to say hi, but I felt a little uncomfortable and didn't know how to approach you." I found out in life, you can either tell the truth and have people respect that, plus down side is some people just can't take the truth, or you can lie, and when people lie, it never ends. Just be honest and truthful, in a tone that will not hurt his feelings or make things worse. Not all guys are open and bold, sometimes the female needs to take the initiative. You never know, he may become one of your best friends for many years down the road in life.
2006-10-11 19:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, he could've talked to you too in the last 3 months but didn't. I would suggest doing nothing because that's what both of you are already doing now!
2006-10-11 19:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Candace Rideout 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well since you stopped talking, you better start it again! Just go up to him and say something like, "gosh finally i get the chance to talk to you again" then imediatly switch subject and ask how he's been or something like that!
good luck
2006-10-11 19:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to talk to him, which suggest you like him... you could try to talk to some of your friends in that class, about camp- what you are doing next summer or whatever, try to say it by him, if he hears you and does not react then o'well, try to move on.....
2006-10-11 19:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by nickydig9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him cuz maybe he thinks u like him that is why you are not talking to him
2006-10-11 19:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just casual convo, hello , goodbye, you dont have to say much, he should get the point
2006-10-11 19:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything to him. Your not friends, you just 'know him'.
2006-10-11 19:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
punch him in the gut that should break the ice
2006-10-11 19:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him talk to you first
2006-10-11 19:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by smalzimbarry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋