I've always wondered if i should try it but i'm scared its gonna hurt any suggestions or opinons
2006-10-11 12:23:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If it hurts Stop!! Yes it can be very enjoyable for most people. First, you must be comfortable and relaxed. You should use plenty of water based lubricant KY Jelly is good. Have your partner start with a finger and only insert a little at a time. When your partner feels resistance they should not try to force it in but hold the position. Eventualy, your sphincter muscles will relax and then you can continue. Depending on how large your partner's penis is or dildo, they should wait until you can take two or three fingers in. A small dildo works or a candle to make sure you are ready. If you are unsure of it still, you should be on top so you can control how much goes in you and if it hurts you can stop. By no means should you ever be forcefully penetrated as it can tear your muscles cause bleeding and will forever stigmatize you from ever trying it again.
If you really need more instruction than that I will be happy to assist you personally. If not, enjoy yourself.
2006-10-11 12:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 23⤊ 4⤋
I hope this helps:
If you are interested in trying out this method of pleasure these are somethings you should consider before just going full throttle!!
1. Be sure that you are in a secure, good relationship with someone that you can talk to and explain your desire to venture into this new way of seeking pleasure. If you are not in a solid relationship this can be a physically painful experience or even a really embarrassing one!
2. If you do choose to try anal then I suggest that you start with having the other person just try using a finger the first time you decide your want penitration. It is not so much to handle the first time. From there work your way up, one then the next time 2, then 3 fingers, get comfortable with the feeling of having something being inserted into this area.
3. If you decide that you like the way it feels then either a toy or the real thing is probably the next step. MAKE SURE that if you are have anal sex with a real penis (not a toy) that you use a condom!!! Very important. If you are planning on having anal then vaginal, make sure that the penis or toy is well cleaned before inserting it into the vagina... you could get a MAJOR infection if you skip this step!
Aside from that, the only other thing I could suggest is that you relax during this the more tense you are the more uncomfortable it is going to feel and the less likely you are going to enjoy and want to re-live the experience.
Have fun and use protection!!
2006-10-11 12:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by funk3742 1 · 16⤊ 1⤋
Put lots of lube. When you think you have enough, put more.
Make sure its clean down there! Make sure nothing smells like poop and its clean.
Stretch it out with a buttplug (optional)
Insert an index finger but dont thrust it back and fourth, instead, rotate in a clockwise direction to loosen it up in there. Use lube! Thats kinda foreplay for anal.
If your nervous, your bum muscles will tighten and it will hurt. Dont be nervous! Relax
The guy will put the head of his dick inside your bum. It will be tight at first but then it will adjust.
Remember, after getting f*cked in the @$$ you CANT go back to vaginal sex imediately since theres so many bacteria in your rectum(butthole). The guys gonna have to wash his dick before inserting in your vagina after.
But you can go from vagina to anal but not anal to vaginal
2014-06-12 06:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice for you is to get a small anal toy and use anal lube it has numbing solution in it to make it not so uncomfortable. If you think it is going to hurt then you will tense up and it will hurt. Imagine it feeling good and it will. Start small and work your way up and you can never use too much lubrication..
2006-10-11 12:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kiara 2 · 5⤊ 4⤋
Well .. hmmmm .. if you do, use a lot of lube, and find a guy that will go slow for you .. and maybe a little on the small size to start out. Good Luck ! .. Oh. Make sure he wears a condom or you could get HIV/AIDS. It can also cause internal bleeding .. be careful. :)
2006-10-11 12:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 6⤊ 4⤋
I am currently beginning to explore that part of my sexuality with my boyfriend. So far it feels great and my boyfriend is well endowed so there was pain but nothing compared to the pleasure. I say try it and if you don't like it don't do it again. make sure it's with someone patient and caring. and it's best to use lubrication and just for him to keep pushing and sliding out, pushing and sliding out because he needs to be able to go in and out with ease. Slow though until it's pleasurable. Good luck! If done right, it's definitely worth it.
2006-10-11 12:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 25⤊ 2⤋
Start small and work your way up. Some people love it more than normal sex and some people hate it.
2006-10-11 12:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by jbrowning001 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
I personally didn't like it. Maybe it just didn't feel natural for me.
If anything, use a ton of lube.
2006-10-11 16:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by krivera_fierro 3 · 8⤊ 4⤋
It sure does feel good. Just make sure you relax and have alot of lube. Just take it easy.
2006-10-11 12:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by Bunk 2 · 19⤊ 3⤋
yes it does go for it
2006-10-11 12:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋