What to do about bullies??

Question

I'm in the 10th grade. Im really quiet. I guess i look nerdy because i wear glasses and have tons of acne. On the bus, we have assigned seats and i sit with this dude. Well theres these 9th grade girls who think they're all that and they always tap me and then look away and laugh about it. i dont know what to do. they're very intimidating. i know im older but if im mean or if i tell them to stop, they'll just call me names and everyone else will laugh and it will get worse. What do I do??

Answer 1

Toughen up girl,you are spineless that is why these #itches are picking on you .You need to tell them to F-off and kick there butts...

Answer 2

If the bus driver assigned you the seat then talk to her or him in private and tell them you are having a problem,could he assign you a differant seat without making a big production out of it.Many of my friends are school bus drivers and are pretty cool about stuff like that.They might be able to make up an excuse to have your seats changed with someone else,it can be done.Those girls are having fun at your expense,you need to get a way from them because otherwise it probably won't stop.

Answer 3

ignore them. a bully does it for attention, and if they don't get the reaction they are looking for they will pick on someone else that does give them the satisfaction of being jerks. bring a book on the bus, and just keep reading it. focus on the book and hopefully they will leave you be. also, i know you may not have much confidence in yourself, but people will generally leave people with confidence alone as they are intimidated by that. you can take control of the situation. empower yourself with the will to do so, i know you can do it. if it still becomes a problem after a while, talk to a trusted school concilor who can help diffuse the situation. I went to a school where nerds were picked on 2, but i'm in college now and man are us nerds a cool bunch now. try to find people more like yourself, whether online or at social places, you can connect with for support. I know bullies are mean, I dealt with them all my life. They do go away, you just have to take away the power they have over you. I hope it works out!

Answer 4

I have been through that and I had a hard time overcoming these bullies. In the end, this mad bubble in me burst out and I got trouble with the biatches and lost a coupla 'frens' coz m not pretty and not popular. But where am i now? I'm so over the top of 'em. they're still trying to their best in their grades and working as busladies. Not that I hate them. they're my frens. Just dont let anyone step on yah. Speak up. You'll be proud of yourself one day.

Answer 5

you do nothing. you will evolve with time, into a great person. they will always have to find reasoning and live with knowing what they've done. in the meantime, get your parent or guardian to help buy medicine for your skin. I'm really quiet also, i need glasses to drive and to see far away. i use to have pimples, sometimes, i still get them, from stress. no biggie, i am in show business, I'd rather you not know who is writing this, i can't see it doing you much good. you are human and are well adjusted upstairs, they're, on the other hand, bothered and dazed in the illusion of, "being all that". you do nothing, it is sad for them, they suffer the human tragedy. it will be a long time for them to overcome their own captive souls, while you go on soaking in everything. move on a free soul, for you've done what is expected, to pass the test, on planet school. personally, i would always ride the bus, deep into a book. there is allot of good reading out there. for yourself, get the medicine or antibiotics or maybe as simple as ivory soap, for your complexion. sorry, for those girls, they are misguided and confused. you do nothing. i am praying for you.
God be with us all...

Answer 6

You need to totally embarrase them. get a tampon and stick tape on it. Pat them on the back.

Or turn around and really seriously say, listen you bad breath bi.th if you dont stop I will beat the crap out of you.*say this loudly so the boys will hear. They will start laughing and the girl will get embarrased. It doenst matter if you are really skinny and whimpy looking. I was just like you. I had a big black muscular girl do that to me and I went crazy on her. I said I will meet you anytime any place and If you do that one more time...one of us is going to walk away missing an intact leg or wont be walking at all. She didnt call my bluff luckily and everyone heard about it. Turns out she had done this to others and everyone was like, you go girl to me afterwards. you need to change your attitude and look confident. It doesnt matter if you have acne and wear glasses. Give them that psycho b*thch attitude.

Answer 7

the best thing to do about them is when they about to crack jokes on you think about something to crack on them about say I may look like a nerd but people may look at you and think your a dumb b*tch and be outspoken that's the only way to get rid of bullies or you can tell a teacher or the bus driver that you are being bullied and you don't like if they can do something about it because you are very quiet and you don't like confrontation so please have these students leave me alone I'm speaking from experience i didn't wear glasses but i was very quiet and I'm very smart but i always wear name brand but the fact that I was quiet I use to get picked on until the girl and I fought if I had been outspoken from the get go this could have been avoided when I put her in her place and told the teacher after the fight that I was being bullied he said if I had come to him before he could have prevented me from being bullied so you need to talk to an adult or you can talk to your guidance counselor or talk to your parents to go into the school for you and let them tell the teachers

Answer 8

Well first of all you should tell someone you trust. Maybe your parents or a teacher. I don't know about where you live, but the police take bullying quite serious and you can get charged for it.
I would also tell you bus driver or get the person that you trust to talk to the bus driver so that maybe you can move seats.
I hope this helps.

Answer 9

ok this may not be the best answer...
but if one of them does that turn around and punch her right between the eyes!
im 20 years old and i was bullied a bit myself in school.
one year i was about 140 lbs and a guy about 1 foot taller than me and weighted about another 80 or 100 lbs. all muscle...
decided to pick on me..... (guys are meaner, they like to knock your teeth out instead of laugh) he started pushing me so i pushed him back, he hit me so i shoved him to the ground he got up started running towards me so i moved out of the way and he slammed into the wall and broke his wrist...
then me and friends decided to beat him to a pulp.
we had to call an ambulance.
im telling you tis so you dont do what i did and get too carried away with hurting bullies..
size or look doesnt matter.
its just whats inside :)
you take care and have a good day.

Answer 10

First see if the bus driver can change your seat. tell her or him that you are having a problem, and that you do not want it to get out of control! This should work, but if it does not, then you, look the girls, dead in the eyes, and say you got a problem? let them know that you are not afraid of them, or just pretend that they are just not their. say to your self, they do have a problem, (smile)

Answer 11

ignore them, that will make you look smarter, more mature, and they will stop picking on you. They want you to fire back at them. Use the buddy system as well and hang out with friends. If you do not have any, get some. Find somthing you are intrested in and you can get friends that way.