I want to get rid of those thoughts and pls Dont tell me "It is normal to see ur partner......" How can I stop that!
2006-10-11 12:19:14 · 7 answers · asked by Necesitosaber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's a compulsive behavior, get a grip on your thought pattern. Think about what your thinking. You're going to sabotage your relationship by your own insecurities.
2006-10-11 12:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you stop that? By telling you it's normal to see your partner say hi to another woman. Hey, lady.. if all he is doing is saying 'hi' to another woman, you have nothing to worry about. Think of all those other woman who have worse problems - like KNOWING that their man is cheating or getting their behind kicked by their man for no reason. I'm not one of them, but I know plenty of women who are so consider yourself lucky. Also, keep in mind that if your guy is cheating on you for real, he wouldn't be saying 'hi' to his .. mistress..
2006-10-11 12:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's normal at all. Has he cheated in the past? I think you two need to talk about this and work through it because it's not right to have such negative feelings towards your own man.
2006-10-11 12:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a guy i know i actually imagine having sex with girls i see out in public my gf thinks it is hilarious but she says she thinks the same way about the guys she sees so we joke around about it just have sense of humor about it
2006-10-11 12:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by willyholdem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to even think that?!?!? has he ever cheated on you before? maybe that could be it. or you just dont have trust in him. you have to find that trust or its not going to work out. good luck
2006-10-11 12:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember its all in your head, I know its easier said than done. It seems like you have trust issues....
2006-10-11 12:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to trust him...If you can't do that then u need to be on your own...
2006-10-11 12:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋