i am with this boy who is flat out amazing always says the right thing always makes me feel better comes over to my house when i am sick all this great stuff. but theres this feeling its not right i like him i like him alot but i donno i am kinda effy about the relationship. do i wait and give it time. or break up with him and ruin our pervious friendship?
2006-10-11 12:04:43 · 15 answers · asked by onesongxofxglory 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes a guy seems so great on paper.... but somethings missing, it's not that somethings wrong with you... but maybe you are just missing the whole chemistry thing. For a relationship to really be great you need that feeling... and it's definitely not an iffy thing. I hope you find a guy that is as nice as that, but you feel head over heels for... good luck.
2006-10-11 12:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by girlnextdoor409 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you've been seeing him, and what you are looking for. He could be a very nice guy who just isn't right for you, or this could be the foundation for a serious relationship. If you've put in less than 1 month, give it time. If you still feel this way after 3-4 months, it's best to move on.
2006-10-11 19:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times happiness isn't about being all excited, and having that wonderful feeling you get when you are first in love. When you've known someone for a while, they treat you well, are there for you in the good times and the bad, that wonderful exciting feeling of being in love often goes away. This doesn't mean you aren't in love with them. It only means that you have accepted them. I would say to stick it out and give your relationship the time it needs to mature. In today's world it can be hard to find a man who treats you well!!!
2006-10-11 19:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something tells me theres more to this story that you might not be seeing. You have to identify what exactly about the relationship is making you have doubts. Is he smoothering you, are you to just not compatiable, are you bored with the relationship, ect. Please give it time though, its hard to get back something you lost. Give it a little time and have a conversation with your boyfriend about the relationship. Hopefully, you two can identify your iffy feelings and work through them.
2006-10-11 19:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just not up to your expectations. I think I would give it more time. Its not like you are going to get married or anything, so just slow down, take one day at a time and if things get too uncomfortable, just sit him down and tell him that you want to be friends only. If he is a true friend of course he will be somewhat hurt, but he will respect you for telling him face to face. Good luck.
2006-10-11 19:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, play it cool, that is the best thing to do any how. Woman, are special, they have intuition, and we have to learn to use it, You have the right thought, take if slow, when you can put your finger on it, get out, (smile) or who knows it may just work out fine.
2006-10-11 19:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur not in to it becasue you think it might be too good to be true. or maybe theres just no chalenge in it. maybe its boring and sureal because its just too good. in any case id wait and give it some time until ur sure theres something wrong because theres no point in giving up on the relationship until you can at least outline whats wrong with it.
2006-10-11 19:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of two options:
1- the relationship isn't as "amazing" as you've convinced yourself it is, and you need to break it off before he gets hurt
2 - You're not happy with yourself and need to work on improving your own life and self esteem
2006-10-11 19:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by earthlove32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you like the bad boys. The drama, the no calls, the competition. Sounds like this boy is the one to marry. Are you not ready to settle down. Remember, he might not be there when you want him to be.
2006-10-11 19:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with you is the fact that you like drama. There's no drama, so you're bored. What is wrong with a good guy?
2006-10-11 19:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by Honesty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋