ME and my beautiful girl have been together for 4 yrs. I love to take care of her but me myself am so into it sometimes. There is a slight age difference but I feel like I don't have the drive that she does! How do I become more sexual?
2006-10-11 11:57:51 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah M 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
smoke some pot
2006-10-11 12:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be more open with your partner about what turns you on. Trying new things to spice up the love life might add a little something new that'll bring ya begging for more. Some people just naturally have lower sex drives. A former co-worker of mine that's in her fourties, bi, and has been in a lot of relationships over the years has noticed that that's been a common thing in relationships that it's hard to find a partner that has the same drive. Maybe being more open about expressing yourself sexually with your partner will help you two be on the same page in that area. Also, don't listen to what jungle j typed. There hasn't been any solid evidence for or against the idea that women often have lower sex drives.
2006-10-11 13:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out if something is wrong physically. Hormones or lack there of, can be libido killers. Diabetes, high blood pressure, anemia, sleep disturbances and depression can effect you that way.
Age definitely has something to do with it, so you might need to eat differently,, sleep and exercise more to maintain a good metabolism.
The fact that you recognize it as your problem and are not blaming it on her is a great sign. You might just be at a point in life where you are needing to slow down. See your doc and see what she says, then go from there.
2006-10-11 15:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being sexually objectified is in hardship-free words offensive because a phase of our society has informed women those who they must be indignant through it. Why won't be able to someone concurrently be considered as a sex merchandise AND as having the skill for self reliant action and determination making? ie, basically cuz I dig ya would not propose i imagine you're stupid. Love Jack
2016-10-16 04:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order for you to become more sexual, you need to become more comfortable with yourself. When I met my husband, I wasn't comfortable with myself, so I held back. But after awhile I began to became more comfortable with myself and I was able to become more sexual. My husband and I also had a conversation about our sexual like and dislikes and we gained better understanding of what it takes to turn each other on.
2006-10-11 13:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today is National Coming Out Day!
2006-10-11 15:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by SmashJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think maybe you guys should just have a yes and no session. have sex and try out different things and if you dont like something just say so also if you find your losing energy and thats your problem maybe you should try adding chocolate or something else that will give you energy burst, to the sex it would definatley be interesting
2006-10-11 16:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kiarajade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more open about what turns you on... Fantasy's etc... Is it a chore instead of something you look forward too?
2006-10-11 12:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as my grandmother said when she was asked for marriage advice," Grit your teeth, close your eyes and think of England."
2006-10-12 13:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just send me a message I'll get you back on track...LOL
2006-10-11 12:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Bring a man into the relationship
2006-10-11 11:59:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋