my boyfriend just recently told my friend that one of his "Girlfriends" goes to the same workplace i go to. obviously, i'm not his only girlfriend.
other than just confronting and breaking up with him, does anyone else have other ideas in mind?
2006-10-11 11:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by spazchick816 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no just dump him and move on, if he is plowing other fields, there is no doubt he is bringing in weeds from other fields as well.
only other thing that comes to mind is a blood test and have them screen for everything, you never know where some of those ho's have been
2006-10-11 11:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i would think those would be the first 2 obvious and more likely ideas to persue but i can think of 2 other ways to confront this situation.
1) find out who the girl is and confront her and see what she has to say about it all. maybe the 2 of you can piece some pieces together.
2) Don't say anything and pretend as though it's not a big deal.
Although...I definetly don't reccomend this option b/c no good can come out of it. If you have questions or concerns you should be able to approach your b/f and talk about anything w/o feeling scared or intimidated! If you do feel this way...then maybe he's not someone you need to be in a relationship with b/c a real relationship is all about communication.
Good Luck in making your decision!
2006-10-11 18:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and find out more about this "girlfriend" through your friend.
You could set up a meeting but you turn up instead, that would certainly stop him in his tracks!
Other than that break up in a very public place making sure everyone hears what he's done then pour a drink down his trousers, he'll have to travel home soaking wet...Petty but satisfying!
2006-10-11 18:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by *Care Bear* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the homework. find out who she is and how long she has been his girlfriend. then act as if your not if she don't know. two can play that game. wheres your boyfriend work? have a so called person say the same thing that was said to you. see how he likes it then leave him with a smile. easy said hard to do trust me it can be done. if he is doing you this way and her that way he most likely has more and will continue.
2006-10-11 19:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him, let him call you, and when he does, say, I do not think it is in your best interest for you to call me, any more! and if he says why, then say would you like it if, The place that you worked at, i had you and another friend, working at the same place? say well I heard about you and Ms.Thing! so you can be happy with her. I do not need you or anyone else to waste my time, good bye!
2006-10-11 19:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure "girlfriend" is what he meant and not "lady friend". I think it's odd that he would come out and tell you about it. If he's actually dating both of you then it's up to you to figure out how much you're willing to put up with.
2006-10-11 18:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by jbrowning001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. take him to a movie theatre (or an alley). sit in the back. act like you wanna get it on. undress him, get his pants off at least, then run off with them.
2006-10-11 18:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by MyGreenCivic 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, take rotten eggs and throw them to his face.
2006-10-11 18:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat his a**
2006-10-11 18:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by Cynroddddddd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋