As a straight male if I say something about Gay Males, Homo thugs is a funny term, why is it an assumed diss?

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For one it's humor, just like the Black Guy that acts too White. In the back of anyone's mind thier like what is he doing? It's like one has to be Politically correct 24/7 when it comes to Gay people.

To Randy your comment on my Previous post- I don't know where you got the Idea that guys in your community are the only ones that are tough Mother-fers. I don't go looking for trouble but I will finish it when need be.This doens't need to become a trash talking fest, it's the internet. Plus I have class, but don't assume I'm some 115 pound panzi that can't hold his own and is hiding behind a screen, Period. I'll say what I said here anywhere. Don't play that Game with me Randy your better than that aight, Peace

I get what you've all said, but honestly if I got mad everytime someone Joked about a black guy getting shot over some Jordans, or about how we like chicken, or how we talk different that would be stupid, at the same time it's true and some use it for Comedy effect like Dave Chappelle, Granted I'm not Dave. But I am growing tired of having to Tip toe around Gay people, your people just like me.

Aight Randy, thats Cool i apologyze and I will remove the question.

I heard the term came from Jail anyway(Hence the phrase) but I didn't mention that so I was a little unclear as well. It's cool man I'm off work so........peace

Answer 1

H2 I appologize profusely I didn't mean to imply that you where not as tough as the g0y.
I just wanted to let you know that your implication that at the end of the day a homosexual was still somebodies girl was offensive. G0ys are not anybodies Girl. We do not do anal and we are nobodies bi tch. We find the very implication that all homosexuals play that part offensive. I do not personally know any g0y who are homo-thugs but I just wanted to bring to your attention that if you call a g0y someones girl or a guys bit ch we would likely want to beat the crap out of you for casting aspersions on our man hood just like you would likely do the same if I implied that your where someones girl.
You and I both are men and we don't like haveing anyone imply we are not masculine. See how quickly you jumped up to say you could throw down and finish trouble when need be. G0y are the same way and when you implied that homosexual men are into effeminate behavior by saying
"No matter how hard core you act at the end of the day you someone's girl right."
I just wanted to tell you that the answer to that was a resounding Wrong.
I mearly told you that so you would know that many homosexuals would find that offensive.
I also know you didn't mean for your comment to sound offensive because you are not homosexual and you are not a homophobe.
You meant it to sound humorous but many would not find it funny but insulting.
I like you H2 and meant only to give you a friendly warning that you had said something offensive. I didn't mean to sound like I was challanging you.
For that I appologize for not being clear. I may be a man but I try to always be a gentleman first.

Answer 2

I think it sounds funny enough though it would probobly hurt some peoples feelings not just the gay or sensitive but on a different note I have met some really cool fudge packers and muff divers peace out

Answer 3

I think it's a funny phrase.. I wouldn't take offense... People take themselves too seriously on here. We should all laugh at ourselves... It's the only way to get through it sometimes... I'm not a gay male so not sure if I'm the best person to answer....

Answer 4

I wouldn't worry about Randy's issues H2 Oasis, anyone so insecure as to attempt to seperate himself/themselves from others based on some pseudo-macho crap have no idea what masculinity/manhood is all about anyway. And they wonder why others laugh at them.

Answer 5

The subject in not humorous and therefore your question is just a sign of your ignorance

Answer 6

i'm sick of hearing how str8, how well educated, how good your job is, how so successful you are, you come here day after day bragging about how well off you are like someone owes you praise, your starting to get on my nerves, tell it to someone who cares cause frankly dear i don't give a damn, your just another person just like everyone else no better no worse

Answer 7

you can stuff like queer and all the rest--if your attitude is right. If the context is hateful or homophobic it is offensive.

Answer 8

Um, I don't think you can tell someone what they should consider funny.

Answer 9

i have some chicken for you, now bend over